WHY IT IS SO DIFFICULT TO DATE A STRIPPER 

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , on November 17, 2018 by tiltdiary

I explained to him, “Most men are better inside the club than outside the club. That’s why it’s best to keep it inside the club at all times. It’s safer. Safer in regards to disappointment and shock when finding out who he is outside of the club. Plus, most men cannot cope with the club.” He wondered, “What do you mean?” I explained, “Well, let’s say he’s not so bad outside the club and both parties are interested in more. The guy usually wants you to quit or throws a fit when he visits you at the club or the days you work there. Like a jealous thing. Or he starts treating you bad because you’re a whore all of a sudden. Everything changes when you meet him outside of the club.” Men, people cannot understand that the club is part of you — a big part of you. If he wants to become a player he’s going to have to juggle both sides … you inside and outside the club. If a man can do that … now that is hot. 

Dating a stripper is really quiet complicated and can be very confusing to the simply wired, male, reptile brain. You have to win her twice. Inside and outside the club. 😮

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WHAT MAKES A STRIPPER TICK

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , on November 16, 2018 by tiltdiary

A creative collaboration where masterminds melt together to make others feel and create art has always been my biggest weakness and temptation.  — A.A. Jones 

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STRIPPING AS A FUN PROFESSION 

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , on November 15, 2018 by tiltdiary

If I think about it a little deeper, I have to say stripping should be a lot of fun. As entertainers in this little microcosms we should be adored, appreciated, and there should be enough fame for each and every girl that takes the step onto the shiny stage floor, no matter how good of a dancer she is. I can honestly say, that each dancer gives her best, each dancer who dares to make it through an entire shift has more guts than any housewife, lawyer, doctor, teacher, or any woman I know. There’s is boldness and courage no matter how shy or insecure the dancer is. And that alone should get us respect, admiration, and tips from every customer (male or female) who dares to set a foot into the club even if he/she just blinks at the dancer on stage or the set of boobs or butt that brushes past him/her. We are the ones who turn a regular, boring bar into a place of seduction, awakening, fun, and entertainment. But sadly, it is getting more and more difficult to enjoy this line of work, because the customers bring their own baggage into the club, and instead of making the club a secret getaway from the daily grind and frustrations we become the punching bag and the outlet for all their aggression, frustration, dissatisfaction, urge of power, and with that the target of abuse. Lately, it feels we have to beg, demand, and argue with customers about paying us for the time we dedicate to them and fun we provide them with. We are called “gold diggers,” “money hungry birches,” even “scam artists.” Some are appalled when we ask them if they want a private dance. Others shund us when we refuse to let them stick a single dollar into our bra or panties. It feels more and more as if we owe them to make them feel better, put up with the shit their spouse refuses to put up with, and to even offer them to slap our left ass cheek after they violated our right cheek. All this abuse, the power games, the mistaken girlfriend entitlements lead me to saying that stripping for the most hasn’t been that much fun lately. But it should be … and both parties are missing out on much fun just because the entitlement of men and women makes us look like we are working in a shady profession and are trying to trick people into spending money. Why are they expecting strippers to perform and entertain for free when many other entertainers get paid millions of dollars to pretend a character in some boring remake of a movie that’s been done already twice? We strippers are all originals, each and every one of us. 

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PREVENTING HURT AND SUFFERING

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on November 14, 2018 by tiltdiary

Knowing who you truly are can prevent much hurt and suffering. — A.A. Jones

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TRENDING ABUSIVE

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , on November 13, 2018 by tiltdiary

The world is in uproar. People are frustrated, stressed like the devil, and the disasters are accumulating. With that the strip club clientele changes. The club gets angry, the customers are frustrated, the dancers get frustrated, some even cry … abuse seems to be the trend. One shift becomes more daunting than the other. An accumulation of fear. frustration, and anger. The club just mirrors the outside world, and what should be a place of fun, play, and entertainment becomes a place for horror, stress, exhaustion, and power games. It seems the customers don’t come in at all anymore to get turned on, to get seduced, instead, it feels like they only come in to abuse and beat up a stripper, and proof that they do have at least some power in life — like not tipping the dancers … I miss the times when dancing could be lots of fun …

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A MAN ON HIS MARRIAGE AND WORK 

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on November 12, 2018 by tiltdiary

He was joking, “What’s the difference between marriage and your job? After ten years, your job still fucks you every day and sucks.” But we all know there’s always some truth in every joke. 

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MELTING ICEQUEEN 

Posted in Uncategorized on November 11, 2018 by tiltdiary


Photo by Khari, @khari 

Boots by Pride Shoes, @my.pride.store

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