HOW TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE AND BE SUCCESSFUL

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on January 16, 2018 by tiltdiary

People go black or white, all or nothing, now or never … but this lifestyle is not maintainable. Call me boring or ordinary but it’s all about moderation, balance, finding a middle way, living in the grey instead of choosing the non-maintainable extremes. Extremes set you up for failure and push you into the other side of the extreme. Embrace the grey, accept the step by step, stay on track but cut yourself some slack. Persistence is only maintainable in moderation, and success comes with patience. Juggle the good and bad, and find balance.

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NUMBER ONE REASON WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL AND HOW TO AVOID IT

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on January 15, 2018 by tiltdiary

If you would ask me for the number one reason why relationships fail, I would say, because one or even both partners do not feel valued, appreciated, recognized, and seen in regards to their effort they put in for the other person. If you feel you’re not of much worth for your partner, if he/she doesn’t recognize the things you do to make your partner feel special, if you don’t feel important … the relationship is doomed. Sooner or later you will give up. If you love someone dearly show them how much they mean to you, how much they make your life better, how much they mean to you. Find out how they can see and feel the value they have to you! Don’t wait! Do it today, because tomorrow they might give up and think you don’t care.

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WILD WOMAN AND HER DOG

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , on January 14, 2018 by tiltdiary

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WILD WOMAN

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , on January 13, 2018 by tiltdiary

Unapologetic and wild
She makes your sun shine bright
She’s a surprise that never ends
Mysterious, magnetic, without needing any defense
She won’t make a good bride
Instead she’ll bring out your darkest side
She’ll confuse you and excite
Even with her hair tangled and matted she’s a delight
She’ll make your head spin
Her heart is hard to win
Independent and full of pride
Yet often she will hide
Needs to be on her own
Hide away on her thrown
Howl like a wolf through the night
Holding no man but her dogs tight

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DATING STRATEGIES AND GAMES

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on January 12, 2018 by tiltdiary

They are very common, and as a stripper you get to know them all. The modern man looks for help, especially if he hasn’t met his goal yet in regards to relationships and getting laid. In my experience, the older he gets the more desperate he is … yes, his biological clock is ticking too. He’s particularly desperate if he has never been in a long term relationship — and I am not calling a relationship that latest three months long term — or if he doesn’t get sex on a regular basis — and this includes many married men as well. He will reach out to those relationship experts. And they will teach him to pretend to be busy even if he’s not doing anything else but watching his phone hoping her text will roll in. But he’s been told not to answer right away. He’s been told to let her wait. He’s been told to play mystery man, hard to catch, hard to pin down, because women don’t like the good guy. He’s even learned techniques to hypnotize her to get into her pants. Eeeeeekkkk … this shit might work on girls … maybe … but I hate to break it to you, any time you pretend, you act like you’re someone else, you follow a raster of how to win her heart, you might peek her interest for a second, but you won’t win her heart, no matter how much you hypnotize her, no matter how much pleasure you give her … women are much more intuitive than you can ever pretend to be, and sooner than later, she will smell the fake in you, and that will be the biggest turn off. In fact, it’ll turn her off so much she won’t even remember you ever existed. Here is an important dating tip from a stripper: don’t pretend, because you won’t be able to keep up your fake facade for long, it’ll come down and with that your best friend will hang low too. And most importantly, don’t try these silly tricks on a good old stripper, it just makes us yawn. Realness is much more attractive than fake.

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APOLOGIZING FOR NOT VISITING THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , on January 11, 2018 by tiltdiary

Most men don’t hold their promises. When they say they will come back to visit you at the strip club next week again they most won’t. They probably forget, and it’s not a big deal … whatever … you’re used to it. And you don’t take it personal.
But then there’s the customers who you do build a relationship with, and they are more than just a one time visitor. Some of them tend to find excuses when they cannot come to visit. It is sweet to send a message and say, “Hey, can’t make it today.” But if you start listing one excuse after the other why you cannot visit, cut it out. Fact is, unless you’re sick and contagious, something else is more important, whether it’s catching up on sleep, or the bank was closed, or you’re afraid of catching the flu, or ran out of toilet paper … it’s OK. Remember, the strip club is a playground … no obligation, no harm if don’t want to come in. You are important to me, but when I feel like I’ve become the wife you’re justifying to why you had an affair … then it’s too much.

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DESEXUALIZATION OF WOMEN AND HOW IT CHANGES THE DYNAMICS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , on January 10, 2018 by tiltdiary

And often women do it to themselves, because they still think being manly is more powerful. The hair will be cut off, the pants come on, the cleavage will be hidden … butch seems to be the new in, but by imitating men, trying to be like them, acting like them, trying to beat them in sports, business, power, even trying to behave like them in strip clubs, women deprive themselves of their sexual character and with that the avalanche of sexual confusion is in full motion. Men become like women, women take over the roll of men, and in the end, it’s a lose lose for everybody. Trying to mask your sex, imitating the other sex just to get ahead will make you lose your power, whether you are man or woman. So here’s a tip, if you like who you are, don’t mask it, don’t try to imitate anybody, be you, be yourself, be free … now that is irresistible … And remember, there’s no competition between the sexes. Women have what men will never have, and men are men!

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