WHY SUCCESS AND MONEY ARE IMPORTANT TO MATURE WOMEN

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , on September 21, 2018 by tiltdiary

She felt guilty when she admitted, “I have to tell you honestly, when a man is interested in helping me, when he tries to make my life better, and when he supports me and fuels my success, it will spark my attraction for him. What I am saying is, that if a man is capable and willing to support me, I will notice him for it, rather than if he doesn’t do anything for me. I find it attractive when a man is in a position to help me.” This seems to contradict unconditional love, but in my opinion it is a natural progression of maturity in a woman. While we might put up with a loser in our twenties, we start demanding more in our thirties. In our forties, many of us won’t even lose a breath on a guy who cannot enhance our lives, especially the women that are financially independent. A man should always enhance your life, not because you need rescuing, but because he is willing to take responsibility and interest in what’s good for you. So when it comes to relationships between men and women, unconditional love is for babies …

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LEARN FROM STRIPPERS HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LOVER

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on September 20, 2018 by tiltdiary

I have a young man who visits me at the strip club to become a better, future husband. He told me the first time I danced for him, “My religion does not allow sex before marriage. I am saving this experience for my future wife, but I want to learn how to be better with the ladies.” It’s actually very sweet. We talk during lap dances about love, chemistry, how to tune in with a woman, and many other things a stripper can teach a man. He really seems to think a lot about how to make his wife happy for a life time, although, he hasn’t met her yet. I find it sweet how much thought he puts into it.
Strippers are healers, therapist, and teachers.

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DON’T RELY ON THE ATM AT THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , on September 19, 2018 by tiltdiary

He was upset that the ATM wasn’t working, and that they charged him a high fee to get money from the bar. He claimed, “They charged me 45% to take money out.” I bit my tongue but what I really wanted to say to him is, “Well, I hope this will teach you a lesson. Why would you come to the strip club without cash in the first place. Next time come prepared with your wallet filled with cash. And stop complaining, instead learn from your mistakes. And be grateful they gave you cash at the bar otherwise you would leave feeling as shitty as when you came in here.”

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HOW TO BE AN OUTSTANDING STRIP CLUB DJ

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , on September 18, 2018 by tiltdiary

It takes much more than just knowing music and the tech part of DJing to be a really good DJ. But if you manage to bring it all together being a DJ at a strip club can be very lucrative and rewarding, it can even give you a lifetime of financial security if you don’t fuck it up. You can earn good money, admiration and friendship from the dancers, as well as some club fame if you pull it off. 

First of all, you need to be personable and genuinely interested in the dancer that work on your shifts. Not because you’re trying to hook up with them, but because you want to know the girls, what makes them tick, and especially what music will make them tick. Don’t be a power bully, instead work with the dancers, help each and every girl to look as good as possible on stage by playing music she likes and makes her move, as well as fining a unique way of introducing each performer depending on her unique skills. The more you fuel her business, the more she will tip you at the end of her shift, and the more likely she will come back to work with you instead of working with the other DJs. It is very common for DJs to get involved with dancer, but that should be a complete no go for you. The more dancers you get involved with the more trouble you’re in. Stay professional and keep your pants on. 

Second, you should be able to read the audience, current mood in the club, and never push against the energetic flow in the club. Determine the age range, ethnicity, and trending vibe from dancer to dancer. 

Third, have genuine respect for each and every dancer, no matter how good she is on stage.  Don’t forget, a girl that’s a mediocre performer become a top income earner with your support, and you will benefit from it. Don’t favor girl, don’t play power games, and don’t let other dancers push you into skipping dancers or treating some girls unjust. Every girl is your favorite girl at least for the duration of her stage time, because any of the girls can make your night. 

From personal experience I can say that it makes all the difference to have a skilled and professional DJ to work with. It motivates me, uplifts me, and can make an even daunting night fly by. Respect for each other’s work as well as respect towards each and every individual involved makes all the difference. 

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THE STRIP CLUB AND ITS IMPORTANT LIFE LESSONS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on September 17, 2018 by tiltdiary

One of the most valuable lessons the strip club has taught me on how to deal with “negative” experiences is to not to dwell on them, learn your lesson, and quickly move on. Many people get stuck in the past, cannot let go of old hurt and abuse, and have a hard time living beyond the wrong that they feel has been done to them, which has victimized them. But most of the time, these experiences from the past cannot be changed. All you can do is embrace the knowledge and experience you gained from them, avoid making the same mistake again, and move on. 

In the strip club abuse, disrespect, rudeness, and people trying to take advantage of you is normality and encountered on each shift. But you cannot let it bring you down nor can you let it affect your shift otherwise you lose twice. Most of the time, these people aren’t important to you anyways, and they should not have power over you. They are simply a tool of life, a treasure to toughen you up, get more experience, becoming better at reading people’s intentions and energies. You cannot let them bring you down nor can you make a big deal out of it. It’s just what it is, because you’re stripper tough. 
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WHAT STRIPPERS DO WHEN ALONE ON THE DRESSING ROOM

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on September 16, 2018 by tiltdiary

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WITCHES, STRIPPERS, BLACK MAGIC, WITCH-HUNT, AND THE BAPTISM BY FIRE

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , on September 15, 2018 by tiltdiary

We were discussing how quickly we strippers move from being on a high pedestal to being burned alive when we don’t reciprocate a man’s desire. It goes very quickly, often the shift hits you like the lightening strikes an innocent tree. Just like in the “The Hunchback of Notre Dame” the man who seems to love and cherish you and wants to marry you quickly accuses you of sorcery and putting a spell on him, and often, if he cannot have you he will try to make sure nobody else can have you, in fact, some will even try to get you fired from the club — and yes, this has happened to me. In my case, he was married and very strict on his Jewish believes, yet, when I rejected his persistent offers to become his mistress over a few years, he burned me alive, and tried to set me on fire by threatening my livelihood.
I cannot help thinking that all these women who were accused of being witches might’ve been sexually intimidated by some rich, old-ass, disgusting troll who thought, “If I can’t have her, no one shall have her.” Are we women, especially we strippers, nothing but a continuation of these sick rituals?

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