STRIPPER’S DATING TIP: THE BEST WAY TO GET TO KNOW YOUR MAN!

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on April 29, 2017 by tiltdiary

It is not easy to find out who a man truly is beneath everything he lets you see and often pretends to be. But you can learn many things about a man by agreeing to join him for a meal: brunch, lunch, or dinner. It doesn’t really matter.
The first important lesson for women who are trying to find ‘The One’ is to learn to listen, hear, and to see clearly. Just like I tell my yoga students, I tell women who are actively dating that the most important thing is to listen and watch carefully and attentively. When it comes to dating it requires for most women to be willing to take off their rose colored glasses. When trying to find ‘The One’ a rosy retrospective isn’t useful at all, instead it will mislead you and most likely lead to a broken heart. When dating it is important to be very realistic, alert, and guided by clarity. It is also important to remove the false freedom gained through feminism which has women not really advanced much when it comes to their relationships with men. A conservative point of view is most beneficial when it comes to finding a life partner. Forget about everything else you have heard, because it is NOT OK to split the bill or have the woman pay no matter how broke the man is. If you are important to him he will find the cash to take you out. Don’t forget, he gets to spend time with the wonderful you and will be invigorated by your charm, pheromones, and female magnetism.
But there are other signs and signals you need to learn to read. The way he greets you before you enter the restaurant. Or did he already take his seat in the restaurant without waiting for you upfront? How generous is he, does he judge you by what you order, does he tell you how much you should eat? Does he ask you how hungry you are (it’s like asking me what a lap dance entitles — how the hell can you answer that question, plus it’s none of his business), does he criticize your choices? Does he tell you you are ordering too much or does he tell you you are not ordering enough? Is he generous, only wants to spend the minimum, or is he really cheap. Does he expect you to chip in, or pay for your own meal or his meal as well? What conversations does he pick during the meal? Does he contradict himself — most men do at some point? And if yes on what accounts? Which restaurant has he picked? Unhealthy, fattening food or healthy, evolved food (like a organic, vegan place)? You learn by watching his choices and listening to him much more than if you are busy talking — which is one of the biggest problems many women have. They talk too much and miss out on catching the important, early warning signs. Date dinner date with a man will tell you much about him, how he values himself and his health, how evolved he is, and how much he values you.
Last but not least  you don’t just learn about him from if he pays but also with what he pays. Watch out for Mr. Trickster who will be very generous but will use his business card to either write off your meal with him or even better charge it to his employer.
And don ‘t let your first dinner out with him trick you. On the first date most men still put a lot of effort into you. Let him think the cat is caught and watch how his behavior changes. And don’t forget, kissing on the first date is out! No tongue, no kissy kiss. And if he tries … next … this guy thinks he’s on the speed train to your bedroom and that is a clear signal that he’s not ‘The One.’ You want to make sure your guy is in it for the long run even without potential sex. With that your choices will narrow quickly but your disappointments will also stay at a minimum.
And don’t forget, you don’t have to eat everything he orders for you nor do you need to eat food at a place you don’t like. Sometimes, it’s better to leave hungry than eat some shit!

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THE DIFFERENT MAN AND HOW DANGEROUS HE CAN BE

Posted in Uncategorized on April 28, 2017 by tiltdiary

Every man who thinks he’s different as in better than other men is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Being convinced that you are better, that you are treating women different than other men makes you the unaware predator that feels entitled and has earned privileges in regards to women. Since you respect women, treat them right, and don’t see them as a sex objects you’re going to be unaware when your “ordinary” man breaks lose and does exactly what you’re convinced you would never do. Often, abuse happens out of oblivion. The abuser has no idea nor intend to abuse. Any man who thinks he can bypass his manhood is much more dangerous than the Neanderthal who doesn’t mask his urges. 

To be very honest, I have met and talked to thousands of men from all walks of life in all sorts of relationship combinations, and I have not met one that’s “different” in the way Mr. Different likes to think of himself — unless of course he’s gay and hunts after men not women. Although, they all displayed unique character traits, in the end, when it comes to women, they are all the same and want the same: pussy! Some are willing to do more for it than others but it comes down to the basics. 

Fact is, all men have a dick and are ruled by dick. Best to admit it, be aware of it, and learn how to handle it instead of hiding behind the self-created different/better man. 

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WHEN KARMA MAN ABUSES THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , on April 27, 2017 by tiltdiary

It is important not to mix this customer up with one that you indeed might have a karmic connection with. But this type will be obsessed with you from the second he sees you, and he will make you better and more powerful with each encounter you have with him. He is convinced meeting you happened for a reason, and that your encounter will change his life. In fact, he claims you’re his soulmate — I don’t know why and how he can be so convinced. He will serenade you about everything that’s great about you and you said even if you never said it. Next thing you know he will quit his job because you told him he needs to follow his heart and pursue his passion as a musician, actor, writer, singer … meanwhile you didn’t suggest any of these things. Last thing I would do is suggest to a customer to quit his job — we already have enough broke motherfuckers that come for a free show to the club. But he will make you responsible for all the drastic, life enhancing decisions he all of a sudden has the courage to follow through with since he met you. He’s set on wanting you — most likely, till he gets you. Then he will accuse you for ruining his life and making him lose his job. Mr. KarmaChange is the type who makes others responsible for his decisions and who crown people as quickly as he de-crowns them. Today you are his queen, tomorrow you will be his bitch!

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A STRIPPER IN A BIG DILEMMA 

Posted in Uncategorized on April 26, 2017 by tiltdiary

For my entire life, I have tried and wanted to understand people, and why they do certain things. Why are they cruel, mean, angry, vicious, unfair, abusive … ? Why do people scheme, betray, cheat, and lie? Why do they drink, take drugs, destroy themselves and others? Why they say what they say and live the lives they live? 

While we can explain certain things by looking at the childhood and previous experiences of a human being, not everything can be explained just like that. Sometimes, there are bigger forces that rule humanity. There’s more than just what the bare eye can see and what the simple brain can comprehend. Sometimes, if we don’t want to look towards the dark side for explanations we need to simply stop trying to understand why man is just man and acts like a savage haunted by a demon. 

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NO LAP DANCE PLEASE

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on April 25, 2017 by tiltdiary

This customer type thinks he’s very smart. He will tip you mediocrely on stage but will tell you that he doesn’t do lap dances, because he would rather “connect” to you outside of the club. Sometimes, he also reinforces the point that he does not pay for sex or sensual dancing. I hate to break it to you, Mr. NoLapDance. If you don’t dance with me inside the club you will for sure never dance with me outside of the club. Dancing for a man is a natural way sorting out the good and bad ones. Not doing a lap dance with your stripper will get you nothing except the label: Cheapo no danco!
The tricks guys play to get laid often make no sense at all and aren’t good nor fun tricks either 😛

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ONE WRONG WORD AND THE DATE IS OFF

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on April 24, 2017 by tiltdiary

In my opinion, women have become far too tolerant when it comes to male behavior on a date. I blame partially on emancipation, and partially  on women’s desperation for getting laid. Fact is, in the USA — possibly around the world — women aren’t getting sexually properly satisfy. Maybe, women have never been served right when it comes to sex, but the continuous decline of male testosterone could be contributing to the widespread sex desperation and aggressive behavior of the female kind. Now a days, the modern male is perfectly happy with once a month mediocre sex, in fact, more will most likely overwhelm him. Depression, being overwhelmed by his job, redirecting sexual stamina into video games, porn, as well as numbing TV, and the preference to smoke a relaxing joint or drink a cold beer that will quench the thirst for sexual interaction as well are common ways in the domesticated male to make sure sex is just not that important anymore. While the act of sex is often too exhausting men still want to dream about they could have sex. I think that’s why they date. But due to the change in male drive and a significant shift in his primal wiring dates aren’t really dates anymore.
Instead, of showing a woman that he could be a good provider (which women look for subconsciously since it is ingrained into our DNA) the modern male has become cheaper and more cost efficient than ever. And women take it, except strippers. We do not compromise when it comes to your wallet. We know if you cannot pay, you eventually cannot fuck us right either. And whats the point having a poor fish at the end of the line that won’t be able to treat us well and stand up for his manlyhood in bed.
With the average woman splitting the bill might work, and the sentence, “Let’s share some dishes,” might come across romantic. But with a high caliber woman sharing outs a cheap date and a lazy fuck as well.
If you’re still trying to date a high quality stripper pay the bill in full and don’t ever stick your fork into her dish so you can get a bite of hers for free!

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POLE TANGO

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , on April 23, 2017 by tiltdiary

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