CROATIA KICKING ASS

Posted in Family Events & Celebrations with tags , , , , on July 15, 2018 by tiltdiary

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YOU CAN NEVER PLUNGE ENOUGH

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , , , , on July 14, 2018 by tiltdiary

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PHOTOGRAPHER BRETT STANLEY TALKED ABOUT HIS COLLABORATION WITH MODEL AND STRIPPER A.A. JONES

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , , , , on July 13, 2018 by tiltdiary

And how I love to inspire people and make a light go off …

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HOW MEN DEAL WITH REJECTION IN THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on July 12, 2018 by tiltdiary

He had asked me on every visit of his to meet him outside of the club, and I had always politely declined. I was just not interested. Today his regular spiel: one private dance he paid for and a desperate dinner invitation. Me again politely, “I don’t want to meet you outside of the club. I am just your private dancer.” Him very angry and disturbed in a threatening tone throwing a tantrum like a three year old who doesn’t get the transformer toy he wanted, “Then, then, then I will never ever ask you out again.” Me relieved, “Thank you.”
But can you imagine how a customer would react if I would threaten him when he rejects a private dance!! 😀

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WHAT IT MEANS WHEN A STRIPPER SAYS “NO”

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , , , on July 11, 2018 by tiltdiary

When I stepped of the stage he waved me over with a bright smile. Then complimented me on my great performance being a skilled athlete and dancer. We got into a conversation, and he started telling me about himself. Kinda that elevator pitch to get a girl interested. He had lived all over the world, explored Asia, was an aspiring commercial director, and loved Sushi. I am sure Sushi was true, the rest … who knows. He thought I was a very interesting woman and wanted to know if I had a boyfriend. “No boyfriend here, not looking for one, not dating, not interested in dating but we can do a lap dance.” Him quickly, “Lap dances aren’t my thing. So what do you do for fun?” Me, “I train aerial, ride my bike, go hiking with my dogs. I write and always try to learn more about health, wellness, humans, and the world. “Him, “Why don’t you date?” Me very honest and straight to the point, “I enjoying very much to be single. Single since 2014 and happier than ever. Not looking for a man, not interested in hanging out in bars unless I work here, and no intention to change that any time soon.” Him again, “Well, would you ever consider going out with me? Just hanging out?” Me as straight forward as you can be, “Absolutely NO. Especially since we met here.” Him, “Why is that?” Me, “Because no matter what, you will always see me as a stripper.” Him, “What do you mean by that?” Me explaining, “It’s very simple. The minute people know you’re a stripper they treat you different. Your male yoga students all of a sudden comes on to you, your doctor of many years will try to kiss you or grope you, your co-worker will bring on the sex talk about how he is dreaming about having sex with you, and your girlfriends will expect you to pay for everything they want yet don’t want to spend their money on.” Him, “Oh, I see what you mean. I get it.” He took a deep breath and then he said, “Well, I would like to grab a drink with you.” I almost fell off my chair. In his mind, nothing said or explained was heard. It was as if I had never said clearly, “No,” to all of his offers. I had learned a lot about men that night. They complain all the time about us strippers being liars but when you tell the truth they just don’t hear it.

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WHAT’S WRONG WITH THE PROFESSION OF A STRIPPER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , on July 10, 2018 by tiltdiary

When you visit a car dealership you expect the salesman to want to sell you a car. In fact, if you just go there without any intention to buy you will still respect the sales people for what they do. You expect them to do their job. You wouldn’t feel they intimidate you or are rude trying to get you to be interested. Trying to get you to change your mind in case you told them you’re just looking. 

Same applies to any other profession that’s linked to selling something, which is about at least 90% of all the professions that exist. Even a doctor tries to sell you something not always having just the patience wellbeing at mind 🤑

But when it comes to us strippers wanting to sell people who visit the strip club a lap dance or two we are chastised by society. There are even nasty forums out there to support the poor, male strip club goer and give him advice how to handle us, mean, rude, gold diggers. Meanwhile, most of us dancers keep the sales to the club. We don’t hit you up while standing in line at the bank or register. Other sales people do … I’ve been approached by car dealers as well as realtors in my private time not actively seeking their business and many of them are very aggressive as well as dishonest. 

Why such prejudice against us strippers? Why so disrespectful towards us especially the men who visit regularly? Why such hostility and no acceptance nor appreciation? 

If you don’t like women don’t visit the strip club. 

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BATHROOM ADVICE FROM A STRIPPER

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , on July 9, 2018 by tiltdiary

Should you feel comfortable with your partner at any point in your life to leave the bathroom door open. My simple answer is, “NO.”
Only exception: if your partner becomes your care giver.

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