Archive for December, 2015

IT CAN’T HURT TO ASK

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , , , on December 31, 2015 by tiltdiary

When I saw him walk up to the bar I knew right away he had never been to my club. A young lad in his early 30s, good looking, a fun man who likes to explore and try new things with a hint of anger or bitterness hidden behind his enthusiastic smile. I couldn’t pin point yet why I felt some bitterness. But he was pleasant to talk to and eager to find out about the club. When it was my turn to go on stage, I told him I would be back to talk to him after my set. He threw a few dollars on the stage when I was dancing, and I thought he might’ve liked my performance. When I got off stage I thanked him for the tip and told him without really having figured out whether he was into me or not, “And Brett, just let me know when you want a private dance. It would be my pleasure.” He was polite and said, “I will. ” But I could see he was in a rush to get to the stage and sit upfront at the railing. A man who likes to spread the love and enjoys all different kind of women. Which I think is what the strip club is the perfect playground for. I watched him for over two hours tip girls and enjoy himself sitting at the stage. When the DJ called last call for alcohol and he bought his last drink, I asked him, “Brett, did you have a good time?” Him, “Yes, very much so.” Me, “I hope you will come back?” Him, “Yes, I will. And before I go, would you like to do that private dance for me?” We walked off into the lap dance booth. I uncovered why I felt bitterness in him. A young man not able to live out who he was … a very sensual, sexual, full of desire personality which is unusual at his age. He was polite and very pleasant to dance for. Plus he made my night and gave me the money I needed to buy my dog’s meat the next day I didn’t know how to afford. A rounded shift at the club that would’ve never happened if  would’ve not asked him when he had just walked in. It can never hurt to ask, but if you don’t ask you will never know what you missed out on.

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NEW YEARS RESOLUTION … GET YOUR …

Posted in TiltPlay with tags , , , , , , , on December 30, 2015 by tiltdiary

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HOW TO TEXT YOUR LOVER … ADVICE FROM A STRIPPER

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on December 29, 2015 by tiltdiary

How long should you wait till you reply? What should you say? How should you say it? How much interest should you show? How long should you play hard to get? Which sentences will get him/her captured?
Relationship coaches like Michael Fiore and consorts have the answer for all of these questions and more. However, in my opinion here are a few questions you should ask yourself before you text someone back you care for (can be your mother or sister too). Do I have the time, head space, and muse to reply or should I wait till I can put time aside to enjoy my reply and feel in the right mood for it? What do I really want to say? Do I want to play a game and mislead this person on who I truly am, or do I just really want this person to get to know me?
Pretending to be someone who you are not, using sentences that might trigger a wanted response, and playing the cat and mouse game can certainly be entertaining but you cannot tell me that this is the right foundation for a serious, long term relationship. Please show the person who you really are, and maybe, they will find the courage to give you this courtesy in return. Of course, improve your relationship and communication skills daily but don’t pretend to be someone you are not, or live a life you don’t live (acting like you’re busy when you are really just strategically not answering the other person). Remember, in the end, the truth comes out. If you aren’t a charmer in person and you just follow someone’s recommendation on how to answer you might really come across like a psycho when you meet in person. Don’t you want someone to want you for who you are?
Of course, this advice doesn’t apply to anybody who is just looking for a quick hook up and wants to get laid. But even there it would be just respectful to tell the other person that you’re just looking for a meaningless fuck. Sadly most of you don’t, although, it would raise your success rate as well because honesty can be irresistible.

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THREE THINGS A STRIPPER WISHES SHE WOULD’VE LEARNED SOONER

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on December 28, 2015 by tiltdiary
  1. Never cry without your Frownies on
  2. Wear hats to protect your face from sun damage — wish I would’ve started wearing hats in my 20s instead of in my 30s
  3. Remember, men don’t consider the consequences until their action is complete. Some even never consider the consequences.

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THROUGH THE LOOKING GLASS …

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , , on December 27, 2015 by tiltdiary

IMG_5052… to see the writing on the wall …

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CHRISTMAS DAY YOUNGSTER OUTING

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , , , , , , on December 26, 2015 by tiltdiary

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SANTA PAWS

Posted in Family Events & Celebrations, Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , , , on December 25, 2015 by tiltdiary

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As we approach the Holiday season
I hope your days are filled with reason
Remembering what Christmas is all about
Love will blossom when you let go of greed, fear, and doubt
Giving your kids the gift of a strong family bond
Means much more than gifts and cards with dollar funds
Teach them by setting a strong example how you treat your health
Their body is their most precious gift and wealth
Before you reach for another mimosa or sugary piece of cake
To numb yourself and be just fake
The madness about rushing around to find the best gift
Needs to stop and instead inspire the shift
Take them on a hike through the winter snow
Ride your bikes or teach them how to inhale the winter glow
It’s about you embracing your life and start abundant living
When following your heart with unconditional giving

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