It appears to me that human nature is to create turmoil and drama. I meet so many couples (heterosexual and homosexual) that should be happy, but one in the relationship cannot stop creating misery, and eventually, a harmonious relationship turns sooner than later into a nightmare.
I wonder, if it has to do with the self-fulfilling prophecy, “I am not good enough and do not deserve happiness” what causes one partner to be literally obsessed with the destruction of that happy relationship. Whether they hurt the other partner on a personal level or are unhappy about their life circumstances (job, materialistic wealth, goals and dreams), there is always one bugger in each relationship who will cause damage, often cause the perfect relationship to fail. Can humans not be content and happy? Is the quest for more, better, bigger, or different so imbedded into human nature that there is no way around it?
I don’t know, but all I see is, that whatever human accomplishes and has, is never good enough, and the quest for more and different seems to be making more damage than creating an admirable ambition. Thank God, I have my dogs. They are eternally happy, never nag or complain, and always enjoy even if they just get a little crumb of my plate. They are content and that gives me peace of mind in my world.
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