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RADIATING SEX MAGNET

Posted in Customers, Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , on June 21, 2017 by tiltdiary

He explained, “But I am so much more attracted to my wife after she gained some weight through the pregnancy. I want to have sex with her all the time, but she’s not interested at all.  I tell her that so many times. She’s so hot, and the extra weight looks good on her.” I explained, “It’s wonderful that you tell your wife that you like her the way she is or even more after she had the baby. But it doesn’t really matter how you feel about her body. What matters is how she feels about her body. How it makes her feel when she looks at herself in the mirror. How her body feels when she touches herself, or maybe she doesn’t even touch herself. Most women have lost complete touch with their own body, and that’s the worse. There’s a disconnect. And that’s the biggest sex killer. If a woman isn’t in touch with her own body nobody can give that back to her except herself. It often takes a lot of work and determination to get back in touch or for some women to get in touch for the first time — most need guidance from an experienced therapist. Many women live disconnected. The other thing is that lasting sexuality comes from how you perceive your own body. If one or both partner have a bad body image sexuality becomes more and more difficult. However, a woman who is in love with herself, her curves, her body, how she feels, looks, moves …  is a radiating sex magnet. She will be irresistible to herself and others.”

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VASECTOMY AND ITS EFFECT ON MARRIAGE

Posted in Customers, Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on June 16, 2017 by tiltdiary

He was convinced, “Once I get the vasectomy my wife will want to have sex with me more often.” They had one child and didn’t want more kids. He told me his wife had no sexual desire. He also backed it up telling me it was normal that women’s sex drive decreases after having babies. Many married men report to me about the lack of sexual desire from their wives after they have had kids, and many married men think they can get a quick fix by getting snipped.
In my opinion, a vasectomy might only increase the sex drive in a marriage if the woman is truly terrified of pregnancy and other birth control like using condoms aren’t an option — for whatever reason. But if she’s not into you anymore, has more important things to take care of, or realizes that sex turns you into a dope head … then a vasectomy won’t do anything except maybe decrease the husband’s sex drive as well, which might improve the marriage if he’s OK with being friends for life.
Many single mothers seem to enjoy sex very much so. Maybe it’s not that having babies quenches a woman’s desire for sex. Maybe it’s the set up of the Western marriage model, and the fact that you really see who your partner is especially after going through pregnancy, having kids, and experiencing how your spouse deals with life challenges that makes you want to keep your legs crossed.
Once chemistry is gone not even ten vasectomies can bring it back. It’s a done deal. Shaving your balls, getting your vas deferens clamped, losing weight nor getting a hair cut is going to restore it. What you should try to do is prevent the chemistry from being destroyed. Prevention is the key, but that’s a whole other blog post.

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WHEN SOMEONE ELSE MAKES YOU BETTER

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on June 9, 2017 by tiltdiary

He said to me, “Just thinking about you makes me want to eat better. I am drinking smoothies with celery, arugula, zucchini, banana, cherries, and three types of berries. My dinner last night was collard greens, vegetable mix, and chicken curry.”
I have triggered many people to attempt positive changes in their lives. People have stopped drinking alcohol for me, stopped smoking because they met me, started exercising vigorously, and even adopted a dog. While I think it’s sweet to inspire, I know better. My sober alcoholics relapsed, the exercising only lasted a few weeks, and the poor dogs ended up back at the shelter. You cannot change for others. You have to change for yourself. So I said to him, “You should think about yourself when you want to eat better. Because you’re worth it!” The one thing in life you should be most passionate about is yourself and your health.

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THE PROMISE IN THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on June 7, 2017 by tiltdiary

His friend squeezed secretly money into my hand and said, “Go give my friend a few dances.” I grabbed his friend’s hand and guided him into the lap dance room. He was wearing a very heavy, leather jacket, so I asked him if he wanted to take it off. He reached into his jacket and pulled out his wallet. He gave me a significant amount of money and said, “You’re very beautiful and under other circumstances I would dance with you all night long but not tonight.” I was shocked, “I said, but I would love to dance for you.” And it was true. He was a very good looking, kind, young man. But then I read it in his eyes and said, “I see you told your girlfriend you wouldn’t do lap dances tonight.” He said, “Yes, I promised. Let’s go and talk at the bar.” I said, “I will have to give your friend his money back. Otherwise it’s not right.” He said, “No keep his money too. It’s OK.” I asked him, “What are we going to tell your friend? We shouldn’t lie.” He said, “I’ll handle it.” When we returned to the bar we were lucky. His friend was outside smoking. When he returned Mr. Promise just said to his friend, “You’re killing me.” He didn’t lie, he didn’t make up a story … he handled the situation beautifully.
We spent a wonderful time at the bar talking till they left. A man who can hold his promise is something I meet very rarely. But when you meet him he’s like a rare treasure. You value him very much. You know you met a real man, because real man hold their promises. I will never forget Mr. Promise. I know he will marry the girl he gave the promise to, and they will have two beautiful children together. I hope they will live happily ever after …

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OWING A STRIPPER MONEY

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on June 6, 2017 by tiltdiary

He was $25 short when we were done with our dances. I told the older gentleman, “You will have to go to the ATM to pay me.” As we walked out of the lap dance booth he said to me, “I will be back in ten minutes.” Some men don’t like using the ATM in the club, but once they walk out of the club you will most likely never see them again. I looked him in the eyes as he walked out and said, “You’ll never come back.” Being stiffed for $25 is nothing. You brush it off and bless the money you made. I didn’t waste much time to dwell on my loss and kept working the floor.
Ten minutes later I saw the older gentleman walk back into the club looking for me. I walked up to him in disbelieve. He reached for his wallet and paid me the money he owed me. I was baffled and said, “Thank you for making me believe in humanity again.” He said, “I am a lawyer, and I try to do the right thing. I know you thought you would never see me again. I had a good time with you. Good night.” And he walked back out.
That night I thanked God for the money I made and for the wonderful experience I was granted.
My readers tell me they want to hear more positive stories about the strip club. They want to hear when men do it right. And I promise I will always report when there are good things happening. Because every dancer wants positive experiences, and it lifts up our spirit when we meet people that make us believe again in the good and rightfulness.
This week was very special …

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STRIP CLUB CUSTOMER TEACHES STRIPPER HOW TO RUN HER BUSINESS

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on June 3, 2017 by tiltdiary

It was end of shift, and I was just hanging out at the bar as he pushed himself in front of me. He was drunk, spitting and drooling as he spoke, “Let me tell you something very important. If you want to be successful in this business you need to make a guy make him feel like you want to fuck him. ” I turned away and wanted to get away from him. I knew right away this man functions on a very unappealing, low vibration. He’s not for me. He blocked my way and continued slurping his words almost yelling at me, “You need to tell him that you want his cock inside your vagina and give him the feeling you will go home with him.” I have never run my business that way. My regular customers know that I do not go home with them nor engage into any sexual activities with them. I am a dancer and very proud to be a dancer. There is no point in discussing anything with drunk people. You can’t really teach or tell them anything. When alcohol takes effect they are even more delusional and delirious. I wanted to get away from this drunken fool and just said, “Such promises would be illegal, it’s soliciting, and I don’t run my business like this. “Him holding me back from walking away, “Then you’re not making any money.” Me, “Sir, please step out of my way. I am a very successful stripper for over 7 years now. I hope you get what you want here but it won’t be from me. Good night.” As I walked away he screamed in his drunken voice after me, “And I go to strip club for over 21 years. You should really take my advice …”

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THE “I JUST GOT MARRIED DILEMMA”

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on June 1, 2017 by tiltdiary

Another puzzling customer type to me is Mr. IJustGotMarried. If you are just married and feel guilty about doing lap dances, watching naked girls on stage, lusting after other women then don’t come to the club. Curb your urges, suck it up, do “the right thing”, spend time with your lovely wife instead of coming to the strip club. Not tipping, not spending money won’t make your visit any better. In fact, it’ll make it worse. You’re not just doing something your wife obviously isn’t OK with (that’s between you and her), you’re also taking advantage of hard working women when you watch without contributing to the show. Don’t punish the entertainers for choices you obviously feel guilty about.
Men, and their guilt, and their weird ways of justifying and thinking it’ll be less bad if …

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