Archive for June, 2014

TEASING A MAN

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on June 30, 2014 by tiltdiary

He explained to me his side of the story, “Teasing is like looking at a menu.” I explained, “To me teasing is like looking at a menu and trying just a little nibble of each dish so you will never get enough, fatten up, or get too lazy and full to play. A titbit at a time so you can play forever. But I do admit it takes skill to tease, and it’s often mistaken by making a fool out of the other person. I find fooling someone extremely boring and even hurtful. Teasing on the other hand, when done right, can be very energizing, invigorating, and exciting to both parties.”

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STRIPPER’S BACKSIDE

Posted in TiltPlay on June 29, 2014 by tiltdiary

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A LAP DANCE DOESN’T GO ANYWHERE

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on June 28, 2014 by tiltdiary

He shook his head and said, “No thanks, I don’t do lap dances. They are pointless because it never gets anywhere. You know what I mean.” I find an answer like this shows very underdeveloped, immature sexuality and lack of sensuality. Many men are very goal oriented and want to get somewhere, preferable as soon as possible. I believe the porn industry has contributed its share to a false perception of what sex could really be. It always ends with a girl moaning and screaming in a high pitched voice, “Oh jaaa, oh jaaaa, oh God, oh jaaaa,” and a guy clinching his face to show you the goal has luckily finally been reached. Also the duration to getting to the climax during a sex scene is usually under 3 minutes. Of course, otherwise it would blow the screen. Interestingly enough, most women complain about an unfulfilled sex life, although, they do orgasm during intercourse. So what’s up with that? And why do men still come to a strip and still do pay for lap dances, although, orgasm isn’t involved and “it won’t go anywhere?” It’s cheaper to go and hire a prostitute if you just want to make it happen. I believe, we all, men and women when sexually developed and not stuck in the infant stage of sexuality, do look for much more than just physical satisfaction when it comes to sexuality. We look for an eternal seduction that will carry on beyond times and ages. An attraction that will last forever because you will always remember and feel the chemistry and connection you have with this person. Like a muscle memory, but it’s really something that should be called cell memory and exists on a metaphysical level. A love that will never be able to be wiped out, an understanding and a connection that goes beyond just mental understanding, a desire to melt with this person, physically, mentally, emotionally, and metaphysically. As long as we don’t experience this level of connection we will keep looking for the fix. But if you ever find this rare match you will be drawn to it and there will be no limitations to sensuality and sexuality. And the seduction, the play, the exploration will be new, different, and exciting every single day. Like a never ending adventure that cannot be predicted, that will stay limitless, grow in excitement, and never worry about the outcome, instead just float like a bottle in the sea. And the sea is unpredictable: sometimes calm and gentle, sometimes rough and stormy, sometimes exciting and sometimes soothing. You will never know what you get, but you will know you truly have each other to make each others’ life better. And that will be eternal satisfaction leaving no unfulfilled need. Keep seeking without worrying about the outcome.

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DARKNESS INSIDE A STRIPPER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on June 27, 2014 by tiltdiary

I live a full life and I love my life, all aspects of it. The Yogis teach us: never lie unless the truth hurts someone else and you need to protect them. As a stripper I can never tell it all. Most of the times, I don’t talk about what makes me (and stripping is a big part of that) to protect the people I love the most (my parents, my family, the elderly people that I am very much connected to here in Los Angeles, they are like extended family). Stripping is still a secret. Not because I am ashamed off it, but because it would hurt the people that I love so dearly and their world would turn upside down by finding out about my little secret. The stigmas are there. Even in my honest book, Tilt Diary of a Virgin Stripper, I don’t tell it all … My readers ask me, “What did you see when you caught the old pervert in the lap dance room with the two Asian girls?” I’ll never tell, because I cannot tell. I have to protect myself, from memories that left an imprint, like an invisible tattoo, but want to be forgotten. You can never tell it all, that is the only dark side of stripping I know. Sometimes, I long to tell … but then I don’t.

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WATCHING AIRPLANES

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , , , on June 26, 2014 by tiltdiary

photo-1 (14)The sky is purple and blue

Reminds me of how much I love you

Airplane getting ready to land

Wishing I could hold your soft hand

Watching the airplanes float in the air

Hoping one day soon you will run your fingers through my hair

Dreaming, longing with a wild heart

Knowing time is very tart

Trying to stay patient and smart

But it’s hard

When you feel what I carry deep inside my heart

Airplanes come and go

Making me fantasize about our next hello

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BRA IN PROGRESS

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on June 25, 2014 by tiltdiary

lomob-4 (9)The costume is like the icing on the cake. I take big pride that all my costumes are sewed by myself and put together carefully. This one will debut very soon …

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STRIPPER TAKES POLE DACING CLASSES

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , on June 24, 2014 by tiltdiary

She asked me, “Jones, why don’t you work with us Saturday night?” I answered, “I can’t, I train on Saturdays.” She got curious, “What do you train?” Me, “Pole dancing and aerial. “She asked again, “Oh you mean you teach?” I explained, “No, I am taking classes to improve my skills on the pole.” She was in disbelieve left with more questions, “You pay to take a class? Why? You are already the best on the pole?” I said to her, “You are never good enough at anything you do. I strive to master all the things I cannot master yet. The journey of learning and improving yourself never ends. This is not only in regards to your skills but also in regards to you as a human being. We can never learn enough and keep evolving.”

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