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HOW TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE AND BE SUCCESSFUL

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on January 16, 2018 by tiltdiary

People go black or white, all or nothing, now or never … but this lifestyle is not maintainable. Call me boring or ordinary but it’s all about moderation, balance, finding a middle way, living in the grey instead of choosing the non-maintainable extremes. Extremes set you up for failure and push you into the other side of the extreme. Embrace the grey, accept the step by step, stay on track but cut yourself some slack. Persistence is only maintainable in moderation, and success comes with patience. Juggle the good and bad, and find balance.

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NUMBER ONE REASON WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL AND HOW TO AVOID IT

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on January 15, 2018 by tiltdiary

If you would ask me for the number one reason why relationships fail, I would say, because one or even both partners do not feel valued, appreciated, recognized, and seen in regards to their effort they put in for the other person. If you feel you’re not of much worth for your partner, if he/she doesn’t recognize the things you do to make your partner feel special, if you don’t feel important … the relationship is doomed. Sooner or later you will give up. If you love someone dearly show them how much they mean to you, how much they make your life better, how much they mean to you. Find out how they can see and feel the value they have to you! Don’t wait! Do it today, because tomorrow they might give up and think you don’t care.

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DATING STRATEGIES AND GAMES

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on January 12, 2018 by tiltdiary

They are very common, and as a stripper you get to know them all. The modern man looks for help, especially if he hasn’t met his goal yet in regards to relationships and getting laid. In my experience, the older he gets the more desperate he is … yes, his biological clock is ticking too. He’s particularly desperate if he has never been in a long term relationship — and I am not calling a relationship that latest three months long term — or if he doesn’t get sex on a regular basis — and this includes many married men as well. He will reach out to those relationship experts. And they will teach him to pretend to be busy even if he’s not doing anything else but watching his phone hoping her text will roll in. But he’s been told not to answer right away. He’s been told to let her wait. He’s been told to play mystery man, hard to catch, hard to pin down, because women don’t like the good guy. He’s even learned techniques to hypnotize her to get into her pants. Eeeeeekkkk … this shit might work on girls … maybe … but I hate to break it to you, any time you pretend, you act like you’re someone else, you follow a raster of how to win her heart, you might peek her interest for a second, but you won’t win her heart, no matter how much you hypnotize her, no matter how much pleasure you give her … women are much more intuitive than you can ever pretend to be, and sooner than later, she will smell the fake in you, and that will be the biggest turn off. In fact, it’ll turn her off so much she won’t even remember you ever existed. Here is an important dating tip from a stripper: don’t pretend, because you won’t be able to keep up your fake facade for long, it’ll come down and with that your best friend will hang low too. And most importantly, don’t try these silly tricks on a good old stripper, it just makes us yawn. Realness is much more attractive than fake.

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DESEXUALIZATION OF WOMEN AND HOW IT CHANGES THE DYNAMICS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , on January 10, 2018 by tiltdiary

And often women do it to themselves, because they still think being manly is more powerful. The hair will be cut off, the pants come on, the cleavage will be hidden … butch seems to be the new in, but by imitating men, trying to be like them, acting like them, trying to beat them in sports, business, power, even trying to behave like them in strip clubs, women deprive themselves of their sexual character and with that the avalanche of sexual confusion is in full motion. Men become like women, women take over the roll of men, and in the end, it’s a lose lose for everybody. Trying to mask your sex, imitating the other sex just to get ahead will make you lose your power, whether you are man or woman. So here’s a tip, if you like who you are, don’t mask it, don’t try to imitate anybody, be you, be yourself, be free … now that is irresistible … And remember, there’s no competition between the sexes. Women have what men will never have, and men are men!

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WHAT A STRIPPER HAS TO SAY ABOUT LOVE 

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , on January 9, 2018 by tiltdiary

The problem about love is that it is too often put into boxes, trying structure, explain, and categorize it. Many books have been written about love, movies have been made, even Grimm brothers wrote fairy tales about love, and many new age love and relationship experts give their two cents about love. Everybody wants to be right about love, how to make it work, how to keep it, how to get more of it, how to show it the right way, express it … In the end, even love has been turned into a huge profit producing business.

Nobody though gets it. Love is a big range of emotion with uncountable facets, and when it comes to romantic love most of he time nobody clarifies how they express love, and what love means to each individual. Everybody is different, often, we express love by treating the ones we love most badly. Often, because we are afraid to let them close, because love is for many the most frightening emotion they can ever experience. But that is a whole other subject.

When it comes to expressing love there’s all sorts of ways that people have learned, or should I rather say often strange love-expression-methods are accumulated throughout a lifetime. Some express love by feeding their loved ones, other by yelling at the other person, some like to physically punish them, some are love-caretakers, some buy presents, others are extra stingy ….the list is endless ….the problem is that each person has their own unique “loving way.” And often, it doesn’t translate to the other person as love, it rather expresses itself as harm or even hate. Plus love-expressions can change. Yesterday, you enjoyed the romantic dinners, but since you decided to lose weight, today, a dinner invitation from your romantic lover could come across as wanting to sabotage your efforts and your resolution to get in shape and healthier. Love and how to express it is certainly a tricky thing, but maybe love would work better if we could understand what the other person’s true intentions are, however, it would not guarantee that we enjoy their love-expression nor spare us most heartaches. Love is complicated.

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STRIP CLUB VISIT FIXES INSOMNIA

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on January 5, 2018 by tiltdiary

If it’s hard to sleep go to the strip club and go to sleep hard :-p

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WHERE DOES ALL THIS HOPE FOR 2018 COME FROM 

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , on January 2, 2018 by tiltdiary

As 2018 rolls in like a speed train I cannot help it but to wonder. There are many unanswered questions. I am sure you’ve received those New Years messages about new hope for the new year. New light, new ways, and new thoughts …about 365 new days to do it all better. But nobody knows how many days each and every one of us truly has left. Maybe it’s only 361 days … death can roll in at the speed of a space shuttle and beat the New Years speed train. And where does all that hope come from? Why do we think it’ll get better? Will it truly change for the better or did we just get tougher because each year beats the shit out of you, and eventually, your perspective changes, you adapt to pain and suffering, it even becomes normality. Humans are very adaptable.

I don’t have the answers for all these big questions, I only have unanswered questions, and the only thing I do understand is that the biggest change lies within ourselves. I don’t know if that change is necessarily for the better, like I don’t know if growing up, getting tougher, disheartened, more bitter or call it stronger is better for the world, but it sure makes things look less terrible.

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