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DRUGS DISSECT YOUR ENERGY

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , on June 22, 2017 by tiltdiary

Drugs are never good. I’ve lost DJs, co-strippers, friends, lover to drugs Drugs are like a giant vacuum. They suck people up and make them disappear even if they are still physically present. Drugs rob your spirit and dissect your energy. If you are using, you are losing. There’s only one real life: sober life!

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RADIATING SEX MAGNET

Posted in Customers, Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , on June 21, 2017 by tiltdiary

He explained, “But I am so much more attracted to my wife after she gained some weight through the pregnancy. I want to have sex with her all the time, but she’s not interested at all.  I tell her that so many times. She’s so hot, and the extra weight looks good on her.” I explained, “It’s wonderful that you tell your wife that you like her the way she is or even more after she had the baby. But it doesn’t really matter how you feel about her body. What matters is how she feels about her body. How it makes her feel when she looks at herself in the mirror. How her body feels when she touches herself, or maybe she doesn’t even touch herself. Most women have lost complete touch with their own body, and that’s the worse. There’s a disconnect. And that’s the biggest sex killer. If a woman isn’t in touch with her own body nobody can give that back to her except herself. It often takes a lot of work and determination to get back in touch or for some women to get in touch for the first time — most need guidance from an experienced therapist. Many women live disconnected. The other thing is that lasting sexuality comes from how you perceive your own body. If one or both partner have a bad body image sexuality becomes more and more difficult. However, a woman who is in love with herself, her curves, her body, how she feels, looks, moves …  is a radiating sex magnet. She will be irresistible to herself and others.”

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LEARNING FROM DOGS WHAT FAMILY MEANS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on June 17, 2017 by tiltdiary

I have been living with a pack of dogs for over 17 years now, and it has taught me what “family” truly means. Dogs stick together through the bad times and the good, through sickness and through health. Even if one of the pack members doesn’t like the other they still work together as a team despite animosity. The social set up of a dog family is daily strengthened by loyalty and patience. Being together means everything and all. Human families could learn social behavior from wolves and dogs as well as crows and elephants. They seem much more evolved and compassionate than humanity. Soon we will find out that the animal kingdom has what we thought was human privilege, while humanity is lacking exactly what we thought sets us apart from animals.

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VASECTOMY AND ITS EFFECT ON MARRIAGE

Posted in Customers, Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on June 16, 2017 by tiltdiary

He was convinced, “Once I get the vasectomy my wife will want to have sex with me more often.” They had one child and didn’t want more kids. He told me his wife had no sexual desire. He also backed it up telling me it was normal that women’s sex drive decreases after having babies. Many married men report to me about the lack of sexual desire from their wives after they have had kids, and many married men think they can get a quick fix by getting snipped.
In my opinion, a vasectomy might only increase the sex drive in a marriage if the woman is truly terrified of pregnancy and other birth control like using condoms aren’t an option — for whatever reason. But if she’s not into you anymore, has more important things to take care of, or realizes that sex turns you into a dope head … then a vasectomy won’t do anything except maybe decrease the husband’s sex drive as well, which might improve the marriage if he’s OK with being friends for life.
Many single mothers seem to enjoy sex very much so. Maybe it’s not that having babies quenches a woman’s desire for sex. Maybe it’s the set up of the Western marriage model, and the fact that you really see who your partner is especially after going through pregnancy, having kids, and experiencing how your spouse deals with life challenges that makes you want to keep your legs crossed.
Once chemistry is gone not even ten vasectomies can bring it back. It’s a done deal. Shaving your balls, getting your vas deferens clamped, losing weight nor getting a hair cut is going to restore it. What you should try to do is prevent the chemistry from being destroyed. Prevention is the key, but that’s a whole other blog post.

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HOW TO EAT, LIVE, AND DANCE LIKE A STRIPPER

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on June 14, 2017 by tiltdiary

The trick to maintaining youth and longevity is to do everything in moderation. The club calls you every night. But it is important to pace yourself. It is important to understand that you cannot push your body to the limit. Like in every profession, in order to be successful, you need structure, discipline, and self-awareness. If you push yourself over the limit you become vulnerable, and the body demands compensation. Often, energetic depletion will demand for food, yet, if you choose the wrong foods you will deplete yourself further. Physical depletion demands for sleep. You cannot underestimate the importance of restful sleep. Mental depletion demands for meditation or call it being with yourself.
If you think you have not enough time to give the body what it needs, stop social media, texting, and unnecessary talking. People spend way too much time doing useless activities. It is important to understand that only meaningful communication is valuable. Cut the crap out of your life and you will have plenty of time to eat right, sleep enough and well, and spend time to nurture yourself by recharging through quiet time or mediation in motion.

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FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF AND OTHERS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , on June 12, 2017 by tiltdiary

He said to me, “Jones, you are a smart women. You fell in love with yourself. If a man is smart, shouldn’t he fall in love with you?” I explained to him, “Love is many things. Love is often mistaken for other things. Love is also not a choice. Falling in love cannot be determined by an intellectual decision. However, if the man must fall in love with me, then I hope he’d fall in love with himself first, because without it his love wouldn’t be whole, and it wouldn’t be enough for me. You can only love others as much as you love yourself.”

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HOW TO BE WITH OTHERS 

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , on June 10, 2017 by tiltdiary

One of the hardest things to do in life is to truly be with yourself and nurture yourself. Only then you can truly be with others and nurture them.

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