WHY SOME STRIPPERS CHOOSE A DANCERS NAME

We don’t choose a dancers name just so you cannot stalk us. Frankly, if I would give you my real, first name you wouldn’t find shit on me and million other girls with my name would come up. Also, getting our real name means literally nothing. It’s not that we trust you more than other customers when we give you our real name. It’s not that a bond develops as soon as you get our real name. Or we proof that we now love you. Our real name is our real name. Our chosen name, our dancers name is what makes us a performer, and we had the chance to pick that name. Our birth name was given by our parents, and we might not even like it. We might think it doesn’t do us justice. While our dancers name is what we obviously like and chose ourselves. Nobody gave or gives a shit about Marilyn Monroe’s real name. Or Madonna, or Cher. So please stop tormenting us and just enjoy us the way we present ourselves.

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STICK TO YOUR STRIPPER

We had had a very good night together. We danced, talked about his relationship he was in, and I had helped him to get insight into the female world to understand how his woman was seeing things. He had had a few too many drinks, and when I took the stage Emma wanted to snatch a piece of him and get as much money out of him as she could. I didn’t like it but it’s always the customer’s prerogative who he does dances with. He had been very generous to me, and you have to let a man go when he chooses to. After three dances, he returned to the bar and took a seat next to me. I could see something was wrong. I asked him, “Are you OK? Did you have a good time?” He explained, “I had a wonderful time with you. You made me feel very special and helped me figure out some things. But I made a mistake. I danced with Emma. She yelled at me and was very rude.” He started crying. I felt very bad for him. I felt, even in the strip club he had repeated his old pattern of choosing abusive women. He couldn’t just stick with me, be happy, and feel good. He had to ruin it for himself and get his ass beat by a girl who plays the abusive Dominatrix.
My tip to you, if you have a good time with your stripper stick to her. Don’t switch strippers just because you can and feel you’re missing out on something, or you have the power to do so.

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FATHER’S DAY IN THE STRIP CLUB

Yesterday, I did not acknowledge Father’s Day! But many thoughts ran through my mind about all the fathers I have encountered during my career as a stripper. None of them ever thought that their daughter could possibly, one day, end up in the strip club. But she could. She could because she might be a rebel or thinks out of the box, or because her father doesn’t want to pay for her college education. Or because her father always told her that strippers are low life’s, and she is too curious and wants to find out for herself. Or because her father paid for everything she ever needed even paid for people to pretend to be her friends. Or, because she saw her dad treat her mother the way she thinks strippers are suppose to be treated. Or, simply because her father would go to strip clubs, treat the dancers poorly, slap their asses on stage, not tip them, or even stiff them — and sometimes, karma gets you through the back door.
So for all of you dads out there. Next time you visit the strip club, don’t forget that soon your daughter might deal with a man like you. Soon she might be taking the stage in a seedy club trying to erase your karma. Don’t forget, the next time you feel we aren’t worth being tipped on stage, that your daughter one day might have to dance for free because some dad thinks she’s just a stupid stripper.

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MINDFUL EATING AT THE STRIP CLUB

The young dancer was obviously very nervous to audition at my club. She didn’t look so good, to be honest. I could see it through the red light. When I passed her she almost clung to me. She had all these questions about my club. I assured her, “Honey, trust me, this club is the best club in the world. I love working here.” She still didn’t look so good, and finally, she revealed to me why, “I haven’t eaten all day, I am starving. I feel Like I am going to throw up and fall over.” Me, “Why would you do that?” Her, “Well, you know, I wanted to look as good as I can. That’s why I went on a fast all day today. It’ll show when I take the stage! I want to have slim belly.”
I always believe, as a performer, you need to do what works best for you to feel that you look and feel your best. But she did not look her best, and she obviously didn’t feel her best either. And when it comes to the circumference of your body a one day fast will not make a difference at all in your looks. But mindful eating throughout your entire life sure will.

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UNDERESTIMATED DANGER AT THE STRIP CLUB

The one thing that is mostly overlooked when working at the strip club is the danger of energetic contamination. One needs to be very aware for it and take measures to prevent it as well as learn how to decontaminate yourself after a toxic encounter or even toxic shift. Every shift has a trend. Some night are more toxic than others. On busy nights, due to many customers with many different energies attached to them, you might not be aware of the energetic toxicity, but it can physically affect you. Inexperienced or very sensitive strippers might experience physical ailments like nausea, headaches, and exhaustion up to three days after working a toxic shift. I am not talking about consuming alcohol or other substances. But of course, if you work a toxic shift on substance the effects might be tripled, and your recovery might be prolonged. You can see most people who work many years under energetically contaminated conditions and don’t know how to protect themselves will turn into contaminants themselves or use drugs and alcohol to deal with the toxicity of their environment. Energies are powerful and can change you in either direction. And some customers/people are energy leeches and will try to deplete you energetically. When dealing with married men you most of the time deal with the energetic attachment of their wife as well. Of course, the customer is not aware of that at all, but the stripper should be!

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TAKING CARE OF THINGS JONES’ WAY

He wondered, “Jones, when you say you will take care of things Jones’ way … what do you actually mean? I explained, “You can resolve issues on an energetic level. It’s most of the time much more effective, sometimes epic, than trying to talk it out or trying to take action to fix a fucked up situation. Most of the time, when you try to talk to people — if you’re lucky — they hear about 30% of what you say, but when you hit them energetically it can have such an impact on them that they might actually learn something.”

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STRIPPER’S TRIBUTE TO HER DOGS

One of my dear customers brought me this wonderful copy to the club … It speaks for itself …

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