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WHAT’S WRONG WITH THE PROFESSION OF A STRIPPER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , on July 10, 2018 by tiltdiary

When you visit a car dealership you expect the salesman to want to sell you a car. In fact, if you just go there without any intention to buy you will still respect the sales people for what they do. You expect them to do their job. You wouldn’t feel they intimidate you or are rude trying to get you to be interested. Trying to get you to change your mind in case you told them you’re just looking. 

Same applies to any other profession that’s linked to selling something, which is about at least 90% of all the professions that exist. Even a doctor tries to sell you something not always having just the patience wellbeing at mind 🤑

But when it comes to us strippers wanting to sell people who visit the strip club a lap dance or two we are chastised by society. There are even nasty forums out there to support the poor, male strip club goer and give him advice how to handle us, mean, rude, gold diggers. Meanwhile, most of us dancers keep the sales to the club. We don’t hit you up while standing in line at the bank or register. Other sales people do … I’ve been approached by car dealers as well as realtors in my private time not actively seeking their business and many of them are very aggressive as well as dishonest. 

Why such prejudice against us strippers? Why so disrespectful towards us especially the men who visit regularly? Why such hostility and no acceptance nor appreciation? 

If you don’t like women don’t visit the strip club. 

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ECSTASY AT THE STRIP CLUB 

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , on July 3, 2018 by tiltdiary

It is easy to understand that when you had a boring, uneventful night at the club that you dread going back, and it can be hart to return. However, when you had an exceptionally fun and good night it’s hard to go back as well. Because you know how rare the fun nights are and how hard each night of ecstasy is to top. 

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BE CAREFUL HOW YOU TREAT YOUR CO-STRIPPERS 

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , on June 23, 2018 by tiltdiary

While he was digging through his empty wallet to pay me the remaining $20 he owed me for the dances we did I heard the DJ call me on stage. I decided to let the $20 go for now and hopped onto stage knowing it would be a lucrative one. The minute I walked away from Mr. Broke one of my co-strippers dragged him into the lap dance room thinking if Jones could’ve cash in on him she could squeeze at least another few dances out of the drunk guy.

While my stage had been as lucrative as I had hoped I was surprised how long Mr. Broke was in the booth with Missy Snatchy. His wallet had been empty after he had paid me still owing me money but I thought he might use the ATM or was lying about being out of money to pay his $20 dead. Then I saw Missy Snatchy storm with him out of the lap dance booth. She yelled at me, “Why didn’t you warn me he had no money left?” Within seconds I reflected on the first day of her working at my club. This is more than three years ago: while I was on stage dancing she had imitated me and made fun of me trying to sabotage my business and making me look like a fool. She didn’t succeed. I’ve always been a very strong performer no matter how hard the girls tried to discredit me or distract customers from watching me. But our relationship had been not better looking beyond the stage. She would be rude and condescending to me in the dressing room or on the floor. She would tell customers not to tip me and turn other girls against me. She had been not once kind or respectful to me but now she had demanded my support, protection, and loyalty. It doesn’t work like this. She had treated me like dust,yet, when she got ripped off snatching a customer away from me she demanded my help and respect. So I told her quietly, “Even if I would’ve warned you, you’d never believed me. You’re always against me and treat me like the enemy, but we can do teamwork and convince Mr. Broke to go to the ATM.” 

That night, for the first time in over three years we did work together. And we respectfully ended up getting what Mr. Broke owed us. I doubt she understood the lesson of love and respect but I am hoping that another strippers, maybe even a club bully, will read this post and change how she treats her co-strippers. 

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HOW STRIPPING CHANGED ME

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on June 9, 2018 by tiltdiary
Without stripping I would not be who I am today. I was young, innocent, full of trust and romance. Then I started dancing, and I learned and still learn. The insights I have gained about men, women, relationships, marriage are mind blowing to me. I see humanity in a very different light now. I’ve grown up and learned to watch my back, not trust anybody, yet, I’ve become more compassionate. No matter how ugly and mean someone is they most of the time don’t do it on purpose. I’ve learned to dive into the world of a despicable man and felt compassion, even understanding  instead of just judging.
What I know has affected my relationship with my parents (in a very positive way), my sister, my closest family members and my friends. I’ve become more independent and strong, yet, deep down I am still a hopeless romantic and can still get hurt easily under that thick stripper shell. Dancing has changed everything for me and I am glad I’ve had the courage to go for it, and I am glad I am still dancing despite thinking of quitting daily. Dancing can wake you …not just physically and emotionally …also psychologically. It has opened my eyes and taught me what I needed to see. I’ve become more realistic … For example I know today men don’t change. Most people don’t change … You waste less time hoping …

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COMPETITION AMONGST STRIPPERS

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , on June 8, 2018 by tiltdiary
The competition between women is high. Amongst us dancers we have often discussed that the other dancers can be vultures. When it comes to money it gets cut throat. You think that girl is your friends but next thing you know she would stab you in the back for $20. I think the strip club shows the true colors of humanity holding a magnifying glass to it. Greed, power, and the Trumps and Weinsteins amongst us are exposed without them even feeling bad to be like this. This is a raw world, highly competitive like the profession of acting.
On the other hand, there’s truly no competition. A guy either likes you, me or both of us. The competition only exists in the minds of the strippers and that is what makes it often an unpleasant environment to work in especially if you are good at what you do.

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HOW OFTEN DOES A STRIPPER WANT TO QUIT?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , on June 7, 2018 by tiltdiary
I think about quitting every day as I think about working an extra night per week. Like I said many times before, stripping is a love-hate relationship. It gives you insights you would never get, it keeps you on the edge, and can empower you, but it also exhausts you, makes you angry, hopeless, sad, and yet, it pays to feed your family and allows you do do what you couldn’t do without this income, like publishing books, rescuing dogs, putting a video together, or simple seeing a chiropractor to fix your jacked up, pain throbbing dancer’s body.

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WHAT’S THE BEST BODY TYPE FOR A SUCCESSFUL STRIPPER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on June 4, 2018 by tiltdiary

There’s a girl for every guy. Some guys like thicker girls, big butts, small boobs, big boobs, small butts, tiny girls… Everything goes. I think what’s most attractive to a man is a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and with her sexuality, maybe even in love with herself. A woman like this is a magnet. It really all depends how you feel about yourself and how confident you are.

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