WHEN A MAN UNDERSTANDS THE STRIP CLUB

He will never ask you to meet him outside of the club because he understands that the strip club is a unique form of sexy fun, exchange, entertainment, therapy, turn on, or many other things he might be looking for. You cannot really get outside of the club what you find inside the club. The boundary has to be clear, yet, most strip club visitors are “meet the stripper outside the club” hunters. And unfortunately, over the years, strippers have changed and given in more and more to this outside thing. Yet, if you ask me, the outside thing usually ruins it all. My tip to all of you gentleman: keep it in the club. Come as often as you wish. Stay in charge by visiting on your terms. And enjoy to the fullest understanding that what you get here is not offered anywhere else in the world, and therefore you should be happy to reimburse your stripper generously or strippers if you like to spread the love. Keep strip clubbing!

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WHAT HAVE MARRIED MEN TO OFFER TO SINGLE WOMEN?

In general nothing.
Except maybe money!
So don’t feel upset when we ask you to pay us for our time whether we have lunch with you, talk to you on the phone, go shopping with you, or dance for you … We can make your life better, make you feel wanted — something your wife obviously doesn’t manage to do anymore. We can even help you save your rotten marriage, help you be a better father, and usually, for much cheaper and more effective than any therapist can and will. Do not expect our services for free! Like you don’t expect your wife to pay you for being your wife!

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WHEN STRIPPERS MEET YOU OUTSIDE OF THE CLUB

He asked me, “Jones, but what happens when you do agree to meet a man outside of the club?” I explained, “The club is sexy fun, and I enjoy it very much. However, outside of the club, the club rules do not apply, and Jones’ rules come in. They are way more strict then the club rules. Usually, if I agree to meet a man outside of the club because he suggested friendship he will try to kiss me sooner than later, and I don’t kiss friends!”
In general, meeting a man outside of the club fails sooner than later!

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A LAP DANCE AND A LAP DANCE ONLY

It seems to be difficult for most people to separate the club experience from the outside world. Most men think that the club inhibits us dancers from doing what we really want to do, because we are bound to the law and strict rules and regulations. Meaning, that if we would be able to kiss a guy in the lap dance booth we would — it’s just the law holding us back. Or if touching wouldn’t be prohibited then we would beg the person we dance for to run their hands — often dirty, germ infested hands — all over our bodies, boobs, and vaginas. Or if we could take all of our clothes off we would tear them off because we want to be naked. That’s why people, not just men, try to get us to meet them outside of the club because they think then we can fully outlive who we want to be. This is a false perception. The law, the rules and regulations protect us dancers — not enough but they do offer a security blanket. If a girl dances in a bikini bar versa a fully nude club it’s because she chooses to do so. We do not want to be touched, kissed, or have sex when we do a lap dance. We want to do a lap dance and a lap dance only!

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STRIPPER WORKS HER ASS OFF

It is an interesting phenomena I have watched for many years now. But strippers pay extra. If they find out you’re a dancer they will try to cheat you around your discount — even if it is a store wide discount. They will treat you badly, and they will act as if you make money by standing naked in the money rain. Strippers pay extra while housewives of the rich get discounts. It almost appears to me that the world is angry if they find out you make money by stripping. However, I find this lopsided. In my opinion, strippers should get the discount, because we make the rich housewives want to buy stripper clothes, we save marriages, and we work harder than most construction workers. We work our asses off! Literally!

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STRIPPING IS AN ENTIRELY SELF-MOTIVATED PROFESSION

I cannot think of any other profession that would be as self-motivated as stripping is. First of all, you have to get yourself to go to the club, look and feel good enough — or pretend you do — to make it through an entire shift. Of course, in any other job you have to get there too, but when it comes to dancing there’s no guarantee you will make money, instead you have to put out money upfront. You have to pay your house fee. So when you start your shift you’re already in the negative.
Secondly, you will need to be the cheerleader, entertain, start conversations, listen, and smile in order for people to even notice you. No one will help you initiate conversations nor help you get lap dances. It is all up to you while rejection will need to become your friend. Especially, in this day and age people expect entertainment for free, or they are miss-educated thinking you’re an employee and you get paid anyways like a waitress does. But in restaurants tipping is mandatory, not in strip clubs though.
It comes down to you and only you being 100% responsible for your own success. In some strip clubs you’re even responsible for bringing in your own customers, yet, everybody else who works in the club makes money off the dancers.

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HOW TO PLAY SEXY

If you know how to play it right, pick the right club, and the right girl/s, the strip club can be one of the most entertaining, invigorating, sensual, sexual experiences you will ever have in your entire life. But you cannot be cheap and need to know how to play sexy.

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