Archive for February, 2017

WHY SAVVY STRIPPER KEEPS FALLING FOR THE WRONG GUY

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on February 28, 2017 by tiltdiary

Just recently, I had given in to one of my regular customer’s persistent begging to contact him via phone. The man, or should I call him boy due to his immature behavior, has been after me for over a year now, and on January 1st, I felt merciful and wished him a happy New Year. There was an interesting opportunity as well to work creatively with him, so I gave in. We had met once previously to exchange work matters, and it had been a pleasant coffee meeting. He had just gotten married, so I assumed, there was no misconception about our relationship. It was clear a work relationship was possible maybe developing into a friendship, or should I rather call it buddy-hood. On Saturday, he invited me the second time to join him to visit a museum. My work schedule on the weekends is way too busy and such adventure isn’t really possible unless I put serious planning into it, which I didn’t. So I declined politely, and he suggested, a coffee meeting after he was done at the museum. I agreed and thought we would push creatively forward. When he asked me if I wanted to have dinner instead of coffee I text him, “Either way is fine with me. I just would like to stay close by.” In general, I do not drive more than 10 minutes to meet a friend, male or female. Well, apparently working together ‘creatively’ meant something very different to him. He ended up inviting himself to me house and suggested we should cook together. My answer to his suggestion was simply, “HaHa. ” And with that my intentions to meet him ever again were wiped out — yes, we women do decide quickly. The imbecile thought he was funny when he replied, “That would be really close by ;-).” I think his humor is strange but funny, however, the rudeness and entitlement about it are a complete turn off. I will allow him to continue to see me at the club, but from here on it is back to strict customer — stripper relationship. He’s granted to be in my company if he pays for it in cash.
The question is why we strippers still get duped by little fuckers like this? We are still human, despite being washed with all waters and used to all sort of male tricks. Sometimes, it is just so hard to believe that another human could think you are so stupid. But we learn daily.

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STRIPPING CAN BE DANGEROUS WHEN DEALING WITH THE SOCIALLY INEPT

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , on February 27, 2017 by tiltdiary

I don’t think in any other profession than stripping you encounter as many awkward people. The strip club has a huge turn around on awkwardness, especially, in regards to the male gender. A therapist gets people that are aware that they need help. In the strip club there’s no filter. In fact, the dangerous thing is that many of the strangely wired men have no clue that they would benefit from professional, psychological therapy. Some of them think they are shy and they voice it. But when I hear from a customer, “I am shy,” a red flag goes up. Shy often mean sick and full of shit without having any self-awareness nor being able to consider the other person’s feelings. Strippers deal with many deeply damaged men. Often, they feel entitled on top of being awkward. The unaware ones are the most dangerous type. Outside of the strip club these socially inept people still contain themselves, but inside the strip club they feel safe and secure to let it all out unfiltered. None of us gets paid enough to reimburse us for the social work we actually do during a night of stripping. Additionally, to earning what we earn we should get an hourly pay funded by the government for the work we do and for how much shit we put up with from the sick motherfuckers who then leave to function right again, treat their wives the way they should, and resist the urge to hurt a non-stripper to then just come back whenever their awkwardness overwhelms them to get their stripper fix. Strippers are half naked sometimes even naked therapists. And what we do for society should put us into one of the most respected professions on this planet.

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TENDER POLING

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , , , , on February 26, 2017 by tiltdiary

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SWITCHING IT UP IN THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on February 25, 2017 by tiltdiary

I have watched him for months. He would always come into the club on the same day to do dances with the same girl. It seemed he was obsessed with her and hooked. But then one night, on his day when he visits, I saw him sneakily run into the lap dance room with another girl. They did a few dances, and he frantically was trying to run out of the club before his original girl could see him. I wonder what happened??!!

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MISS CROATIA 2017

Posted in Jones' Fantasies, TiltPlay with tags , , , , , , on February 24, 2017 by tiltdiary

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CAN YOU HANDLE DATING A STRIPPER

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on February 23, 2017 by tiltdiary

Most men at least dare to dream about dating a stripper. We are the fantasy of men. Being a stripper means sexually liberated, in touch with your body, owning your sensuality and sexuality. We portrait what most men want to have, and many come after us like a whaler after a whale. But just like with whale hunting it often ends bad, for the whale as well as for the whaler — his karma will be altered and his self-confidence will be destroyed. Most men do not manage to treat the woman they lusted after and who seemed to be impossible to get right. When they reach the impossible, when a stripper does fall for a man, he usually cannot manage to live up to his newly achieved success: dating a stripper!
When you meet a woman in the strip club you will need to understand that she will always be a stripper and live the standard of a stripper. If you want to keep her you cannot stop going to visit her at the club. This is one of the biggest mistakes men do when they finally got a dancer to go out with them. They stop doing what they did. Now they think they are beyond and above the strip club visits. They feel they have upgraded. And that is the fatal mistake. If you want to keep her you will have to understand that stripping is part of her, part of how she expresses her sensuality, and it needs to be part of how you continue to treat her unless she tells you different and doesn’t want you in the strip club anymore. But if she granted you to see her outside of the club you will have to continue to go there, spend money on her, in fact, now you should visit more often not less. You will need to be able not to interfere with her business — your jealousy has no place in her work space — yet, continue with what you were in the first place: her admirer and customer who did everything possible to get her to see you outside of the club. Further more, you will need to be able to show clearly in the club that she is your “girl,” but not as in your girlfriend, as in your stripper girl. You can only have eyes for her and only her. You can tip other girls but it needs to be clear you tip her more, and she stands out for you. All women want to feel special, and if you date a stripper it means you need to figure out how to make her feel special in her world, the world inside and outside of the club. And I know, that is a lot to manage for a simple man. Most men don’t even manage to make a non-stripper feel special. So be careful what you wish for. Dating a stripper takes a lot of effort, imagination, courage, energy (you might work during the day, she might work during the night), ability to navigate and create adventure. It is like dating an ueber-woman. And while the reward is priceless the effort might be overwhelming. Before actually taking steps to date a stripper take a honest look at yourself and figure out if you could really handle it.

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STRIPPER TALKS ABOUT PERFORMING ARTS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on February 22, 2017 by tiltdiary

Every performance, ever shoot, every dance starts with a vision. Without a vision it becomes empty posing or empty movement. The seed of captivating creation is planted in the brain. From there it sprouts to the heart, and then takes over the entire body, mind, and soul. Fantasy becomes reality by executing your vision, and it can take over your life. You live, breath, and prepare (costumes, color choices, hair and makeup …) this creation with every cell in your body, and you won’t be able to rest till it is executed to your satisfaction. When preparation meets opportunity a vision becomes fulfilled and great satisfaction can be achieved through expression.

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