Archive for September, 2014

YOU TOO CAN FLY

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , on September 30, 2014 by tiltdiary

lomob-2 (19)The ability to fly, physically and mentally, begins with the willingness to try the seemingly impossible, and allow fear and doubt to evaporate like steam from a boiling water pot. Anything is possible any time.

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GUILTY PLEASURES

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , on September 29, 2014 by tiltdiary

Besides lust, guilt is one of the most dominant emotions that rules the strip club. Single men, men in committed relationships, as well as married men feel guilty about their visit to the strip club, in fact, they feel guilty about their lust and the reasons why they visit the strip club. Yet, despite heart wrenching guilt, they show up anyways. Actually, the guiltier they get, the further they will usually take their little strip club endeavor. First, they will just come to watch us perform on stage and leave terribly guilty about being a creepy voyeur. But soon, watching won’t be enough and they’ll agree to that lap dance that they refused on their first visit. If the lap dance goes well, and turned out to be a lustful, pleasurable, almost irresistible experience the subject will leave even guiltier but start fantasizing about much more then just a lap dance. That will induce even more guilt and in most cases he will come back and look for more. It will go this far for him wanting to meet the girl of his choice outside of the club for dinner and of course, for sex. Any step taken further into the guilt ridden relationship will magnify his guilt, yet, that exactly will make him want to push to the next level. To me this seems irrational and not logical. I don’t really understand the feeling of guilt, unless it comes to eating too much chocolate and feeling sick afterwards. In that case, I will try to remember the amount of chocolate I have eaten, and I will try to examine at which point I started feeling queezy to make sure, the next time I indulge into eating delicious, mouth watering chocolate, not to go over my limit so I wont feel sick and regret to have eaten too much. I though never felt like I should stop eating chocolate altogether. I just feel everything in moderation would be fine, and I can rely on my body to report back when I overdid it.

What is guilt in the first place? Is it really a core emotion we humans feel? I think, guilt is a learned emotion induced by other people values which are learned as well by other people. So guilt has been handed down from generation to generation. Men feel guilty about sex, wanting sex, watching porn, going to the strip clubs, fantasizing about sex and so on. But, society makes sure to induce some negativity about sexual thoughts, although, without sex, our species would quickly be extinct and society induce guilt would be eliminated about sex as well. I do not think any other species feels guilty or dirty about sex, yet, wives make sure their husbands feel guilty about wanting and desiring sex especially after the wives aren’t interested in sexuality anymore. In my opinion, guilt is a useless emotion especially if it fuels the guilty pleasure. Unless, there might be a created addiction to guilt in out society. You feel at least so rotten about your action…it’s better than feeling nothing. You know you are alive and that is why you try to take the guilt to the next level. To me it doesn’t make sense. If I would truly be guilty about something I have done I would just never do it again, no matter how much willpower it would take. But I guess, I am more addicted to what makes me really happy, adventure, and life than focusing on society induced guilt.

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G-STRING DIVA

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on September 28, 2014 by tiltdiary

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DATING A STRIPPER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , on September 27, 2014 by tiltdiary

Inadvertently, while browsing the web, I came across a series of websites I never even knew existed, dedicated to teach men how to date and have sex with strippers. It intrigued me to delve deeper into the validity of their claims. I find it very interesting that the first complication that was listed when it comes to dating a stripper is that we all have volatile backgrounds. The second problem that was listed was our love and devotion to the Benjamines — well, tell me who in our modern society doesn’t share that devotion? The list went on and on, the generalizations and cliches about strippers actually fascinated me, and in fact, that such websites even exist (one was marked under “Modern Male Lifestyle”) made me feel pretty special. Wow, we strippers seems to the the undercover secret male fantasy celebrity trophy. We are part of the male modern life style. That means we are forming and developing history.

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PARTY GIRLS DON’T CRY

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , , , , , on September 26, 2014 by tiltdiary

She rocks it all night long

Doesn’t even like the song

Turns all the men on

Blister blood in her shoes

As they whistle and drink their booze

It all looks glamorous but she has paid her dues

Wants to break out and set herself lose

Can’t wait till the club closes

While the other girls snort coke up their noses

She gets home and takes off her clothes

Then she reveals her true self

No longer set upon a shelf

She rocked it all night long

Now faces insomnia and plays her favorite song

It tears her slowly apart

As she faces her broken heart

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WHAT IT TAKES TO ATTRACT PASSION

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , on September 25, 2014 by tiltdiary

Passion is a result of action. Most people are terrified of taking action and rather hide in their comfort zone in front of the TV stuffing their face with chips and other unhealthy foods. What do you want to be remembered for? Watching useless TV or creating your life filled with passion and love? Choose passion over fear, today and every day.

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MAKE IT COUNT

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on September 24, 2014 by tiltdiary

It doesn’t matter how you feel and what you think. What truly matters is how you express your feelings and use your thoughts to create. A thought without an action is a useless waste of time. An emotion without a consequence to it is like a dead crow in the gutter. Make your feelings and thoughts count today.

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