Archive for May, 2016

HOW MEN AND WOMEN COMMUNICATE OR HAVE SEX

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on May 31, 2016 by tiltdiary

Most men think the conversation is over when a woman just thinks the conversation is just starting. I hear communication between the sexes is much like the sex most women experience with men. By the time a man is done the woman is just warmed up and ready to start having sex. It seems women are more likely to be disappointed with men than the other way around. In the beginning of a relationship men seem to adapt to the female need. Maybe it’s part of the modern mating ritual, but once they think the cat is in the sack, they go to being who they are and women are often left with a reality about their partner they don’t appreciate at all. I hear the question, “Why do they change after sex,” from women all the time. When women gain trust they often desire more conversation, intimacy, and partnership, yet, men desire the opposite.

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WHEN STRIPPERS GIVE GIFTS TO EACH OTHER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on May 30, 2016 by tiltdiary

As a stripper you should not give any other dancer a gift directly. If you do this you might look suspicious like you are trying to buy yourself a favor. If you have anything to give it’s best to leave it on the makeup table in the dressing room. If you think a certain girl should have the piece of clothing or the nail polish you brought to give away you can suggest it casually to her like, “Barbie, this would really look great on you.” Then it’s best to leave the dressing room and let whoever wants what take it. Personal gifts are misleading and will not work in your favor.

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HOUND COUCH

Posted in Pole Puppies with tags , , , , on May 29, 2016 by tiltdiary

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ONLY THE FITTEST SURVIVE THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , on May 28, 2016 by tiltdiary

Generosity and kindness between dancers in the strip club is often mistaken for weakness or trying to buy yourself a favor from another dancer. If you help a co-stripper make money or get dances she might think you are too weak to sustain your business, and you need a team player. It is best to mind your own business. The girls that team up are usually not powerful enough to defend themselves, get customers interested in them on their own, and they are of weak nature. It is best to stay professional, work on your own, be polite, yet, not obliging. The strip club is a highly sensitive environment. One wrong move can be fatal to your reputation. Any weakness or sensitivity will be crushed like a cockroach and left to succumb. Only the fittest survive.

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BUT YOUR ARE TALKING TO A STRIPPER

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , on May 27, 2016 by tiltdiary

Most men think it should be much easier to date a stripper than a woman who has never worked as a sex worker. They think our standards are not as high. What the male brain doesn’t understand is that it takes a lot to impress a stripper. We don’t need Tinder or match.com to get a date. We get offers every day from men out of all walks of life. We understand the last minute booty call as for what it is, we are busy sorting out through men because we encounter many of them, and our standards are much higher due to the experience we gain through working in the strip clubs, the lies we encounter, and the ever changing male mind and mood we get to know very well. Today, a man might confess his love to you and tell you he wants to marry you, tomorrow he might be wild for another girl. The male brain is so unstable, and we see it first hand without any filter, without any rose colored glasses. It becomes our reality, and it takes a lot to impress a stripper. We are not desperate to get a date, maybe desperate to get a date with a guy we like because our criteria are set so high it’s almost impossible to win our hearts. So be careful when you are trying to date a stripper. She might not just play hard to get. She might be hard to get!

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HAVE NATURAL INSTINCTS GONE MISSING?

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on May 26, 2016 by tiltdiary

Over the years, I have watched an interesting phenomena. For example, I have watched joggers, mothers with strollers or little kids holding their hands, pedestrians of all sorts, bike riders, skateboarders who are terrified of dogs run or drive into me and my pack of coonhounds. To me this behavior isn’t normal nor logical. These people don’t know me or my dogs. I could be some cooky lady who doesn’t have her dogs under control, or my dogs could be aggressive especially if you run or drive into them. Wouldn’t you at least use common sense when you encounter something that frightens you? Any other species will watch carefully what they don’t know or fear and preferable avoid it by changing their path, yet, human entitlement seems to push many into irrational behavior that could possibly be fatal. Watching people for many years it seems that the feeling of entitlement and inconsideration are causing most of the hurt and trouble in relationships. Humanity seems to have lost perspective, natural instincts are fading and are replaced by technology, communication happens in the cyber world and humanity seems to be getting more and more out of touch with real life situations. It seems the inflexible Asperger’s mind is becoming more and more the norm, and I am afraid this might lead to devastating consequences. Isolation, depression, loneliness, and social neglect are being fueled by the “I have the right to …” attitude, and the skill to walk in someone else’s shoes is fading.

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WHAT REALLY HAPPENS AT THE STRIP CLUB?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , on May 25, 2016 by tiltdiary

Sex, sex, sex, and more sex? But it’s not really what happens … For example, I currently have a book club going at the club. A customer, who has similar fitness interests and questions about life, has provided me with wonderful books, and our conversations involve and evolve around some of our similar interests inspired by the books we are reading. Often, regular customers share with me what’s important to them, or what bothers them for example in their relationship with their partner, wife, or kid. The strip club — although a very sensual place — can sometimes be a very realistic, eye opening, life changing place. It’s not always about getting just physically turned on. Friendships can happen at strip club.

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