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STRIPPER ON MONEY AND HAPPINESS 

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , on November 19, 2018 by tiltdiary

Money can’t buy happiness unless you’re in the lap dance room. — A.A. Jones 

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WILD PARTIES, SEX, AND ENDLESS FUN AT THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , on September 28, 2018 by tiltdiary

The few friends or wanna be friends of mine that happen to know that I work as a stripper seem to almost envy me for my secret, nighttime profession. In their little fantasy world I get to flirt with men all night long, and I even get generously paid for seducing them and participating in wild orgies. If I would drink, hey, I would even get paid to get drunk. 

Nobody seems to understand the politics, hard labor, and physical demands that stripping brings with it. Nobody acknowledges stripping as a profession that brings challenges like every job does. Instead, you’re this lucky party girl that is getting paid for having fun and downs in cash 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰, but the reality looks very different. 

Therefore, even your friends jerk off to your profession that they create in their little, jilted minds, and that would be all OK if I would get generously reimbursed for their jerk off. 

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GAMBLING IN THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on September 25, 2018 by tiltdiary

He had done a series of private dances with me, and although he complained about the total cost of the dances, he seemed very happy. Then he started debating about doing dances with another girl. I never hold customers back on their decisions even if I think it’s a bad choice. It’s always their decision and therefore their responsibility to switch dancers and spread the love.
And off he went with the cute blonde. After about three dances he returned to me complaining again, “I didn’t like the dances with her at all. I wish I had stuck to just you.” All I could tell him was that it would be expensive to fix the damage and winked at him. It takes effort on my end to make a customer forget about lousy dances, and his own fault for switching dancers. He should’ve just embraced the good and gone home with his brain full of valuable fantasies but noooo … he had to try to get even better and it backfired.
When you gamble in the strip club and you don’t know when to stop you can lose big, but don’t complain about it to your good old stripper when you chose the experiences yourself.

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OFFICIALLY NOT GOING TO STOP BLOGGING 

Posted in Adventures of Jones with tags , , , , , , on August 25, 2018 by tiltdiary


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HOW STRIPPING CHANGED ME

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on June 9, 2018 by tiltdiary
Without stripping I would not be who I am today. I was young, innocent, full of trust and romance. Then I started dancing, and I learned and still learn. The insights I have gained about men, women, relationships, marriage are mind blowing to me. I see humanity in a very different light now. I’ve grown up and learned to watch my back, not trust anybody, yet, I’ve become more compassionate. No matter how ugly and mean someone is they most of the time don’t do it on purpose. I’ve learned to dive into the world of a despicable man and felt compassion, even understanding  instead of just judging.
What I know has affected my relationship with my parents (in a very positive way), my sister, my closest family members and my friends. I’ve become more independent and strong, yet, deep down I am still a hopeless romantic and can still get hurt easily under that thick stripper shell. Dancing has changed everything for me and I am glad I’ve had the courage to go for it, and I am glad I am still dancing despite thinking of quitting daily. Dancing can wake you …not just physically and emotionally …also psychologically. It has opened my eyes and taught me what I needed to see. I’ve become more realistic … For example I know today men don’t change. Most people don’t change … You waste less time hoping …

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HOW OFTEN DOES A STRIPPER WANT TO QUIT?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , on June 7, 2018 by tiltdiary
I think about quitting every day as I think about working an extra night per week. Like I said many times before, stripping is a love-hate relationship. It gives you insights you would never get, it keeps you on the edge, and can empower you, but it also exhausts you, makes you angry, hopeless, sad, and yet, it pays to feed your family and allows you do do what you couldn’t do without this income, like publishing books, rescuing dogs, putting a video together, or simple seeing a chiropractor to fix your jacked up, pain throbbing dancer’s body.

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WHAT ARE THE WORST THINGS ABOUT THE PROFESSION OF A STRIPPER 

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , on May 24, 2018 by tiltdiary

Dancing is like a love-hate relationship. You love it so much you cannot imagine to quit but it can be also physically as well as emotionally exhausting. It is a tough profession. We dancers are often the punching bag of society. People go to the strip clubs to let lose, to be who they cannot be outside of the club, to get their fix, or to get a half naked therapist often without even thinking that we dancers are at work and should be appropriately reimbursed for the time we spend with a customer, the advice we give, or even just the patience we have to listen to them. Many customers feel entitled and think we are horny pole dancers who want to go home with them when our shift is over. But we are not. We are entertainers, sexy, sensual dancers, yet, often we are seen as sexually open minded, casual dates. 

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