Archive for November, 2015

WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on November 30, 2015 by tiltdiary

Do you have a lot of friends? How many Facebook friends? How many likes do you get? How many friends from your childhood, high school, college? But do you have friends you can count on. Or better said can your friends count on you? What would you be willing to do for a good friend? Would you go out of your way for your best friend? How much would you be willing to inconvenience yourself in order to help your best friend?

It appears that we live now more than ever in a time of loneliness and isolation. Despite all the social media and easy ways to connect electronically most of us have nobody they can count on. Often, we call someone our best friend, but most of us wouldn’t even want to get up an hour earlier to help that friend. Often, you expect your friends to pay you for your help or do something of equal value for you in return. But is that true friendship?

I think the problem with friends today is that there are too many lazy friends. Like lazy lovers. But any relationship based on convenience and on getting a benefit out of that relationship is more like a trade. Today, I suggest to you to do one selfless act for a friend. Do it for them without expecting anything back. See how it feels to practice unconditional love. And see if you are truly a best friend to someone, if you can give unconditionally, if you would jump through hoops and over barrels for a friend.

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UNDERWATER STRIPTEASE

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on November 29, 2015 by tiltdiary

IMG_5045-1With each piece of clothing I strip down
I feel arise the certainty I will never drown
Nudity in our world is still marked as villainous
But it fuels my spirit and makes me more spontaneous
In love with your body as it was born
In the end this is all you’ll have ever worn
Your plain self is a rare treasure
Holding the mystery of you and other people’s pleasure
Don’t judge me for being in love with my bare skin
It cannot ever be a sin
It’s given to me by God’s will and generosity
I am blessed despite some people’s animosity
Judgement is rooted in deep fear
I am fearless and only the waves and underwater noises I will hear
Embracing each curve, the soft skin, and my own touch
I am free and that means much
Dive with me and strip it down
Proudly wear the courage crown

Photo by Brett Stanley, www.brettstanleyphoto.com

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WHAT IS SENSUALITY AND HOW TO FIND YOURS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , on November 28, 2015 by tiltdiary

His text blasted through my phone, “I love your friendship plus you are beautiful and sensual like no one I know.” As a former customer living now in a different city we had stayed in touch and become long distant friends. I have heard men and women often comment about my sensuality. I have had women ask me to help them discover theirs, teach them how to be sensual, how to be able to take their sexuality serious, and learn to seduce their lover. So it makes me think. What is sensuality, and how do you find it if it’s not brewing inside of you since birth? Sensuality starts with the full awareness of your own body, mind, and spirit. How things feel, what feeling they trigger, and the acceptance that there are no bad or wrong feelings are the first step in discovering your sensual self. How does this make you feel? An observation without judgement towards your feelings on how movement, touch, sound, taste, smell make you feel is the most important stepping stone to unleashing your sensual self. Once you are in touch with who you truly are, and you are able not to label feelings (which can take years, decades, a life time for some people to accomplish) while seeking your own pleasure as well as enjoying other people’s pleasure/sensuality then you only need to take one more step in order to unleash yourself in your own sensuality. The acceptance that other people have or don’t have yet their own sensuality which might be very different from yours — in fact it is rare to find a true sensual, sexual match. To then start understanding that nobody needs to agree, applaud, or approve of your sensuality when expressing it. And that is true magnetic sensuality.

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WHEN YOU REALIZE YOUR MARRIAGE ISN’T WHAT YOU THOUGHT IT IS

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on November 27, 2015 by tiltdiary

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The awakening comes fast
It will strike you like lightening all of a sudden realizing your marriage won’t last
Years and years of denial and excuses
Are suddenly exposed as your heart fuses
But it’s melting forms painful blisters
As you realize you should’ve better treated your mistress
She took all your frustration from being the family’s slave
A walking ATM you were when validation and respect is all you crave
The denial about your situation
Made you miss out on love and just gave you more frustration
Two hearts are shattered through your fear and your wife’s control
It falls like painful raindrop tears as the thunder rolls

Photography by Erik

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HAVE A HAPPY, MINDFUL, KIND THANKSGIVING

Posted in Family Events & Celebrations with tags , , , , on November 26, 2015 by tiltdiary

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LOOKING FOR PERFECTION IN POLE DANCING

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , on November 25, 2015 by tiltdiary

She explained, “I have just a hard time to be sexy. It’s because I want it to be perfect, and I know I am not.” I explained to her, “You are wrong, my dear. The magic in pole dancing doesn’t lie in mastering moves with perfect lines and the execution of athletic tricks in an Olympic matter. The magic about pole dancing lies in each woman’s perfection as her, as the woman she is, how she moves, her unique way of expression when she is in love with herself. Each dimple, every by society labeled imperfection can become a magnet, a mesmerizing point of focus that will magically hypnotize the audience, unable to resist and take your eyes off of the performer when she embraces every curve, every inch of herself. Now that is perfection in pole dancing. And you are perfect as you are. You just haven’t discovered that yet, but I will help you to see you.”

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GOOD SEX TAKES A LOT OF EFFORT

Posted in Customers, Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on November 24, 2015 by tiltdiary

Customers ask a lot of questions. Him, “So Jones, what are you doing for Thanksgiving?” I said, “Nothing special really since I don’t have family here.” Him, “Come on, you probably have five good looking guys walk in and out, all day and night.” Me, “Not at all. And why would I?” Him, “Well, I am sure you have many guys who want to be around you and have sex with you.” Me, “Yup, many want to but not very many get to. I don’t believe in hooking up just for physical relief. Good sex takes a lot of effort. Why would I waste all that energy on a random person I don’t even care about. Masturbation is much faster and safer if you are looking for physical relief only.”

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