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RECONCILE OR FORGIVE?

Posted in Uncategorized on June 30, 2018 by tiltdiary

To reconcile is not the most important thing and reconciliation is not always possible. But what’s important is to forgive, others and yourself. — A.A. Jones 

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TRICKY SELF-PERCEPTION 

Posted in Jones' wisdom, Uncategorized with tags , , , , , on June 28, 2018 by tiltdiary

Most people, men as well as women, live through life in delusion and self-lies.                     — A.A. Jones

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BEAUTY TAKEN FOR GRANTED 

Posted in Jones' wisdom, Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , on June 21, 2018 by tiltdiary

I work with some of the most exceptionally beautiful, sexy, and gorgeous women I’ve ever seen. And even the ones that aren’t outstandingly gorgeous will find admiration in the strip club due to their skill of dancing, their self-confidence in their appearance, or their exceptional talent to seduce and entice men. With the profession of stripping comes admiration as much as rejection. The young girls grow confident through this profession, some even overcome body issues and lack of confidence due to this profession. Growing up in Germany, being a natural 30F bust size, I myself was exposed to body shaming and discriminated against since I had such large breast at a very small body frame. Even in the US I experienced controversial encounters due to my breast size. I was either treated like a horny woman or accused of having had major breast augmentation. Even my co-strippers who are still jealous of me accused me of lying about my breast being natural. Stripping has helped me too appreciate what God equipped me with, although, it wasn’t always easy to accept my voluptuous treasures at a body size zero.

What strikes my attention is that these gorgeous women (not just my co-strippers) have no appreciation for their beauty or where it came from. When I think about my physic, my bubble butt, my lovely — rather too large —breast, my beautiful, big, blue eyes (yes, I am often accused of wearing contact lenses to color my eyes this deep blue), and the genetics I am blessed with, I always think about my parents, and how they gifted me with who I am — my shell as well as my character. So I am grateful, but also aware that my external beauty is just a temporary gift. People forget that their exterior will change gradually. I see how many people do not cherish their beauty, honor it nor try to preserve it by being respectful and gentle to their body. Instead, they develop arrogance, and at the same time, they neglect what they are so arrogant about. It is a shame and beauty thrown in front of their own pig 🐷

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THE FLAWLESS STRIPPER 

Posted in Stripper Secrets, Uncategorized with tags , , , on May 2, 2018 by tiltdiary

When she steps on stage and takes her long strides to the DJ booth the other dancers’ jaws start dropping. The way the light reflects off of her smooth skin and her hair is almost surreal. She’s a magical creation of godliness, a woman in perfection, a girl every girl will wish to be just even for one day. When she starts her performance you could forget to breathe. She’s soft and smooth, yet passionate and risky … Everything she does seems perfect. There’s not one fingernail, not one hair, not even one eyelash that is not trimmed into perfection. This girl, you would think, will hit the jackpot every night. But she doesn’t. Because the ronchy girl that’s a little thick and the light bounces of her cellulite grabs the guys attention. Or the tatted dancer who moves awkwardly. Or the one with kinda a dirty look. Or the one that seems korky. Or the hairy one with the too long fingernails …

Men do not look nor like perfection. They might like a trophy wife like that. But the girl of their deepest fantasies is not perfect. She has flaws, she has edges, she can be strange … that might turn him on much more than perfect. Men want adventure women, and that can get dirty. 

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WHAT I HATE ABOUT STRIPPING 

Posted in Stripper Secrets, Uncategorized with tags , , , , on April 26, 2018 by tiltdiary

Dancing is like a love-hate relationship. You love it so much you cannot imagine to quit but it can be also physically as well as emotionally exhausting. It is a tough profession. We dancers are often the punching bag of society. People go to the strip clubs to let lose, to be who they cannot be outside of the club, to get their fix, or to get a half naked therapist often without even thinking that we dancers are at work and should be appropriately reimbursed for the time we spend with a customer, the advice we give, or even just the patience we have to listen to them. Many customers feel entitled and think we are horny pole dancers who want to go home with them when our shift is over. But we are not. We are entertainers, sexy, sensual dancers, yet, often we are seen as sexually open minded, casual dates. 

If the majority of people who visit the strip club would just understand the profession of stripping it would change everything, but people are uninformed and uneducated and do not follow etiquette … sometimes, just because they can be rude …

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TO STRETCH OR NOT TO STRETCH 

Posted in Uncategorized on April 24, 2018 by tiltdiary

When you visit my club at the very beginning of the shift you will catch many of the dancers stretch on stage or in the lap dance booth. They are getting readyy for their pole and floor dance magic.

The average stripper retires in her thirties. Often knee, shoulder, and hip issues won’t allow us to dance into our forties. We do have an expiration date, and in this industry sadly you lose value with increasing age. However, often physical ailments, popped out knees, torn meniscuses, shoulder rotator and hip joint damage are the primary cause for early retirement. Yes, our profession is physically taxin, however just like in fitness nobody teaches how to take care of your body. We stretch and pull and push to make sure we give an impressive performance, but none of these dancers stretch after their shift is over. Often, there’s no energy left, but also there’s no knowledge on how to take care of a hard working body when the hard work is over. The same applies to spin classes, Pilates, barre, kickboxing, and other classes. While most instructors and dancers somehow understand how to warm up a body and get it ready for high intensity work, nobody has yet understood how to prep out of an intense practice or what to do after a performance. The art of stretching and restoring has been lost or maybe not yet discovered. You’ll see a fitness instructor or dancer yank out a quick stretch ones the “main part” of the work is done. The body is left in agony and with shortened, often misaligned muscles and tendons. But there’s no time, knowledge, nor patience to do what most people don’t understand: stretch! A quicky 10 second yank seems to be enough or most people even skip that. Yet I believe that stretching after any physical demand is what would brings sanity to the mind and body, and avoids long term injuries and keeps the body functioning, strong, and healthy  for much longer than just through your early thirties. But even physical therapists don’t understand that yet. Often, it’s just a wishy wushy stretchy stretch. 

So if you ask me, a truly deep and correctly executed stretching and restorative routine after your workout or performance is even more important than beforehand. And if you do stretch before you dance or train don’t ever stretch on cold joints. 

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STEPPING CLOSER

Posted in Uncategorized on April 7, 2018 by tiltdiary

Every step you take should bring you closer to your true self. — A.A. Jones

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