Archive for August, 2014

“TILT: DIARY OF A VIRGIN STRIPPER” IN THE UK

Posted in Tilt the Book with tags , , , , , , , on August 31, 2014 by tiltdiary

“Tilt Diary of a Virgin Stripper” is available on Kindle and paperback in the UK. Tilting my way up to the top one country at a time.

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CHOOSING MISERY OVER HAPPINESS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on August 30, 2014 by tiltdiary

He comes to the club to complain about his ex wife. He calls her a bitch, tells me that she ripped him off, what a cunt she is, how terrible she treated him, how she took his money, used him, even abused him. He has nothing good to say about her. I listen patiently. I hear many people complain about their exes. When it’s over then they have nothing g0od left to tell about their ex partner. But what does this tell about them. The denial they live in. The contorted reality they experience. It cannot have been all so bad. After all, they chose to connect to this person, they connected physically and mentally. Mr. HateMyEx actually had three kids with his horrific wife. So how did he make those kids if all was so bad?

I wish people could at least try to see the whole picture. When we connect to a person whose characteristics we don’t like at all, it’s most likely because they hold us the mirror. They are there to teach us mostly about ourselves and how we deal with our established patterns. They are often there to give us the chance to change exactly these patterns. Plus it cannot all be bad. There were good times and not so good times. But all that was there to grow and learn. Denying it and seeing only one side of the story makes the experience useless. I wish people could be thankful for all the relationships and experiences they chose. After all, we do have a choice, and we all choose even if we choose misery over happiness. And with choosing experiences comes growth. And that’s what life is about.

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WHEN STRIPPER’S MOURNE

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 29, 2014 by tiltdiary

IMG_3056In honor and memories of my best friend, dearest companion, and most loved son, who passed away on August 29th 2008. I have not learned to see life easier living without my beloved Jed. I have not gone a single day without missing him deeply. I have not taken one single breath without being determined to spread the knowledge he has taught me for which I am eternally grateful:

Only give your best!

Always live life to the fullest!

Never hold back on the love you have to give!

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A STRIPPER’S BEST FRIEND

Posted in TiltPlay with tags , , , , , , on August 28, 2014 by tiltdiary

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DO MEN LIKE DRAMA?

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 27, 2014 by tiltdiary

Most people’s lives are determined by a strict routine. They know exactly what happens when and how the next day will look. Unfortunately, the human brain has dulled so much through the monotony of life that most people don’t recognize how bored they really are and/or most people choose to numb this kind of boredom with substance abuse. Humanity is desperate for stimulation and excitement. Why do you think men come to us strippers, why do you think they visit a strip club? They look for drama, excitement, stimulation, and the desire to break out from the ordinary is overwhelming. So I say, all people like drama not just men, even though, men always say, “I am easy going, and I don’t like drama.” Some people even purposefully create negative drama because they can’t stand their ordinary boring life any longer and so they create negative commotion.

I recommend to create positive stimulation, adventure, commotion, and call it dramatic excitement before you slip into useless fighting and negative drama because you can’t stand your boredom (purposeless life) anymore. Start living and stop arguing.

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HOW TO LOVE MORE THAN ONE CHILD

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on August 26, 2014 by tiltdiary

I think he thought I would find his confession endearing, and it would win my heart over so I would finally agree to meet him outside of the club, “When I adopted my ex wife’s daughter I decided I would never want my own kids. And you know why? Because I was afraid that if I would ever have my own child, I wouldn’t love my step daughter as much as my own flesh and blood.” I just nodded my head without saying anything. I know better when to keep my mouth shut. I knew this man wouldn’t understand what I was really thinking and feeling. But to a woman, who is capable of adopting a dog of the street and loving and treating it better than most parents treat their own flesh and blood, this statement wouldn’t touch my heart or make me think what an amazing man was sitting right in front of me. Instead, I felt sad for him. I felt pity that the man does not realize that a heart has space for many creatures and many loves. There is no limit to how many souls we can love deeply, and such fear of only having a limited space for love in his heart, was an instant turn off to me. I currently live with a pack of five rescue dogs and people always ask me who I love the most. That question too is not understandable for my brain nor heart. I love them all. Each of them different but that doesn’t mean I love one more than the other. There is so much room in my heart I could easily add more dogs to my household if I could support their needs and take care of them financially. And it wouldn’t take love away from my existing pack. Love is limitless. And to be honest, when I meet another one I truly fall in love with, I will have to take him in and find a way to make more money. Because there is always more money to be made, but you never let a true love just walk away.

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EVERY STRIP CLUB NEEDS A SCHLUB

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on August 25, 2014 by tiltdiary

We sat together in the dressing room just taking a breath from the busy floor and the weird things that had happened all night long with PugFace causing more trouble for all of us. I turned to Bablie, a dancer who was working now for at least two years at the club. I shook my head in disbelieve, “How come management isn’t firing PugFace. She is an embarrassment to the club, to us dancer, and a pest to the customers … I wonder if she is sucking the manager’s cock, and that’s why she’s still there.” Bablie turned around and explained to me something I never thought of before, “Every club needs a schlub. A girl who makes all of us dancers superior, so a guys can feel fortunate that he is with one of us and not with her.” Bablie was right. PugFace is fulfilling a deep purpose. She is a talentless, unattractive, boorish person, and even a mediocre dancer will shine in comparison to PugFace. Sometimes, I do feel pity for PugFace but since she is such a pain in the butt I get over it very quickly.

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