Archive for August, 2015

DAMAGED GOODS — STRIPPER DOWN

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , on August 31, 2015 by tiltdiary

photo (57)This is a stripper’s worst nightmare. A foot like that does not fit into any stiletto. This means no can dance. This is stripper catastrophe. This mean no money, no fun, and lots of pain. Strippers don’t get health care or sick days …

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FLYING THIGH HIGHS

Posted in TiltPlay with tags , , , , , , on August 30, 2015 by tiltdiary

FullSizeRender-2 (5)Photography by Ed Magik Photography, http://www.edmagik.com/

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MODERN DATING AND ROMANTIC GET AWAY

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , on August 29, 2015 by tiltdiary

At night, I walk my dogs to a near by park just for a little outing after dinner. I usually do two tours to the same park just scrolling along with two dogs at a time. I have watched this phenomenon for a while now. The near by park is attracting more and more young couples who meet there for a romantic date. They usually drive to the park, yet, they do not get out of the car. They just pull to the side of the road and roll the windows down … Well, we all have done those hot car dates, right? However, these young couples then pull their phones out and start texting. I doubt they text each other. I think the girls probably text their girlfriends about the hot date they are out with, and the boys text their buddies about their chances of getting laid tonight, and that they hit the jackpot going to the park instead of the movie theater. I know going to a movie ranks high when dating. After all, you don’t have to talk while watching a movie so the success is almost guaranteed. I guess the park texting escapade get away is a nice change, and modern couples have found another way to avoid dreadful conversations and getting to know each other before they hit the sack.

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LAST LAP DANCE

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , on August 28, 2015 by tiltdiary

In my defense it was at the end of my shift. The DJ had already announced last call for alcohol, and the last dancer of the night had just stepped onto the stage as a customers said to me in a cocky tone, “You want to do a lap dance for me? Is that what you want?” I was tired. No, I didn’t want to do a lap dance for him, I was very tired but I replied politely, “I will give you a lap dance if you wish so.” He couldn’t get fast enough into the lap dance booth. As I started my hip circles I felt my body aching. Still recovering from a foot injury I felt my left foot was going to explode in my stiletto. The pain was mind numbing, and I could feel how my eye lids became heavier and heavier. My body was spent from countless of set on stage, from standing and dancing in eight inch stilettos for over six hours, from talking to many customers and entertaining them. I was more than tired but the lap dance continued. I am usually very aware and on guard during my private dances. You have to be. But this one … the tiredness seemed to take over me. The classic rock song blasting in the background acted like a lullaby to my ears, and I could feel my head become heavier and heavier. I was one second away from falling asleep during this lap dance bracing myself with my last bit of strength against the wall to make sure my tired body wouldn’t collapse over the customer as he woke me yelling, “Oh God, yes, you are so sexy.” My eyes pooped open but then became heavy again and each time I was about to fall asleep he yelled again, “Yes, yes, just like that.” And, “Oh baby, we have such amazing chemistry.” The last thing that woke me was when the DJ cut off the music. I had survived the last lap dance. As the customer paid me he said, “You are amazing.”

It’s interesting how people perceive things very different from what you know it actually is. I am glad he enjoyed himself but in my opinion it was probably the lousiest lap dance I had ever given.

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THE MODERN MARRIAGE

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on August 27, 2015 by tiltdiary

We had been discussing this subject for many months now but I still couldn’t figure it out, “I still don’t get how the wives can discredit and humiliate their husbands in front of their kids. Doesn’t that reflect badly on their choice of choosing a worthless husband?” He brought something very interesting to my attention I had never even considered when he explained, “I think the wives have become like this due to the rise in feminism. Women wanting the men to do their fair share, and they seem to want total control over the children. Sometimes, fair share means more than half!” I understood the control part but it still didn’t make sense to me so I said, “It still doesn’t ad up.” Him very matter of fact, “Maybe marriage is a battle these days. It does seem like it. As you said, once the wives get their children their attitude changes and it’s as if they no longer need their husbands anymore. Then they try to be the most important parent, and putting down their husbands is all part of it. With some women’s liberation thrown in to make sure the men fulfill their ‘fair’ or unfair share of domestic duties. The men still need to earn enough money to keep the ungrateful wives in the style they like, and there you have modern marriage.”

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PARENTS ARE HAPPY THAT THEIR TEENAGE KIDS AREN’T INTERESTED IN SEX YET

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on August 26, 2015 by tiltdiary

I asked him, “How old is your daughter?” He replied, “She is sixteen, and there are problems, but luckily she isn’t interested in boys yet.” I hear this confession from parents all the time. They are relieved to know that their precious kid isn’t interested in sex yet. Maybe they are even hoping that she might never get into boys and he might never get into girls? Although, of course, at some point parents expect their daughters to marry a prince, have at least two story book children with him, and live happily ever after, while their son should find a good girl, who supports his career so he can feed their children and build a successful life. It all resolves in the end about building a family which means reproduction but nobody talks about it.

Are the fathers afraid their daughters might fall for a guy like them? Are they hoping that if sexuality is denied it will never take its natural course? Why is sexuality looked so bad upon?

A healthy child’s sexuality starts early on. Girls and boys know already in kindergarten about the other sex. Girls and boys masturbate before parents can even think of them as sexual beings. They don’t know what they are doing, but they know masturbation feels oh so good.

Parents shouldn’t try to keep sexuality suppressed or hope it will never develop. They should be more worried about what example they set for their children when it comes to sexuality, what role they can play guiding their child through dating responsibly, and how they can make their kids understand that feeling sexual doesn’t mean you have to act upon it by just hooking up with a random partner. There are many other ways to channel sexuality in a healthy way. Problem is that most parents don’t want to talk about sex. Often, they are not worried about their sons too much. Heck, they luckily can’t get pregnant — but they can and responsible parenting should make this clear along with helping boys as well as girls through the emotional and physical challenges as well as explaining what sex is all about. We cannot sweep sex under the carpet, especially in this day and age where easily accessibly porn taints the minds about sex, and how it should be perceived and how it happens. Parents need to step it up. Sex and the desire for it doesn’t just go away when not talked about. If your son or daughter tells you they are not interested in boys or girls that doesn’t mean they truly aren’t. They just might feel how uncomfortable you feel about the subject and your shame projects onto them, so with an answer like that the subject is easily pushed aside and avoided. It’s time for parents to step it up. Deal with your own sexuality responsibly and teach your kids that sex is a part of life that can be enjoyed when you find the right person to do it with.

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WHEN WIVES TURN AGAINST THE FATHER OF THEIR CHILDREN

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , on August 25, 2015 by tiltdiary

We have had many conversation before, but I had never seen him this depleted and sad. I asked, “How was your get away weekend with your family?” His face dropped even lower, and he said, “It was OK. We had a good time.” I just couldn’t pretend this time that I was believing this lie, so I said, “It doesn’t sound at all like you had a good time with your wife and kids.” He said, “You’re right, I didn’t. I am her chauffeur, butler, and human wallet, and on top of that she keeps calling me a jerk in front of the kids. She discredits my authority completely, and I stand like a fool.” I asked, “Why do you stay?” him, “Because of the kids.” I said, “In ten years, when the kids are out of the house will you leave then?” He was convinced he would have the courage to leave her, but I am not convinced. Men stay for many reasons, and women stay for many reasons. I didn’t feel like there was anything I could say to make him feel better, so I just said, “I am sorry things are the way they are.” And he replied defeated, “There’s no solace.” This sentence saddens me so deeply. Often, there is no solace. Families are dysfunctional, people who once loved each other now torture each other and turn against each other. Childhoods gets destroyed because of lack of self-awareness, respect for the other person, and love. Then these kids marry again, and they replay the same story their parents played.

I just wonder what is the trigger for the turning point. Why do so many wives turn against their husbands and degrade them even in front of their kids? What makes the wives be fed up and not even allow the father of their children to stand his ground as a parent? My parents were never like that. There was unity in raising us. Of course, their relationship had many challenges as well, but my parents never played us kids against their partner. My parents had deep respect for each other. I guess, that explains why they are still married after over 50 years together.

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