The fascination and obsession with what we cannot touch has captured our attention since the ice ages. Sunsets, stars, the moon, the planets … the mystery of what’s untouchable has made man invent, spin, and even base rituals and religion on.
The woman who cannot be touched will always remain a mystery and one of the most desired things a man wants to tame. Not just in regards to touching her on a physical level. This applies also to him not being able to faze her on an emotional level. A woman that strong and unreachable will drive a man mad. Just like man spent decades of creating the spaceship, he will try to reach her, get to her trying any and all tricks he can think of.
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Last but not least, I want to introduce you to the thigh high stiletto boot. This type of boot will make you feel sexy and tough even on your least sensual day. It’s a great boot that every pole dancer dreams about at some point. It makes you fly up the pole even on your weakest day. Literally, this boot in plastique will make it possible for you to climb the pole even if you’re sick with the flu. Ok, that was a bad joke. Of course, you should never perform or train when you feel sick. But it even turns the biggest beginner or weakest dancer into hulk when climbing the pole. Not to mention, it will make drops and landings spectacular, and it’ll be inevitable for people to think you’re the invincible superwonderwoman. Not because this boot has special padding but because you can hide knee pads, knee braces, compression stockings, ankle support etc. underneath it, and nobody will know or suspect it.
I have seen girls with severe knee injuries come to work with this secret weapon of a boot in toe. It can literally turn into the sexiest cast ever and no one would ever even think of it.
However, this boot is not my favorite for exotic floor work and therefore I would not buy it in fabric. But this is just my personal preference … I do get a kick out of showing skin. I love how the club light reflects off of my bare legs and therefore I’m hooked on the midi boot. However, I have had the pleasure to perform in the thigh high boots before, and I loved it. It made me feel like having extra powers, gave me an edge of “go fuck your sehr if you don’t like it,” and spared me much energy, dirty stage floor contact, as well as painful knees.
In closing I should say, every pole dancer should have at least one pair of thigh high boots in her secret weapon closet. Even if it’s not for days when you feel physically tired or weak … but need an extra boost in attitude to conquer the world.
I do want to reiterate that you will get what you pay for. Do not purchase the thigh boot from a company like Pleaser or Ellie. Unless you plan to only wear them to a Halloween party. But they won’t stand up to the punishment of the pole and stage floor. The plastique will peal off quickly and leave you with a slippery, fabric patched boot that won’t look that sexy after all. A quality, long lasting thigh high stiletto boot will cost you sever hundred dollars. it is an investment but it’s worth it.
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In the strip club, each dancer dances herself. This is what builds your signature and your fan base. People come to see you. There was never much time and energy left to refine your moves. Working nightshift made you choose wisely calculating how to maintain your strength (basically staying alive and making it through your shift) while still drawing in your audience with a staple of tricks that weren’t too dangerous or exhausting. The stage was basically your advertisement. A teaser to make them sense what they would get if they book your for private dances. I loved it. I loved doing me as seduction was always one of my biggest a passions.
However, now, with covid raging, seduction is not a priority anymore. It’s taken me some time to adjust and live without the strip club. A big piece is missing but adventurous dances, training new tricks, dancing the opposite of what I would dance in a club setting, discovering new ways to move has kept me dancing more than ever. With definitely more sleep than ever there’s more energy to train and discover another side of dance and another, and another …
With every loss comes a gain. The void is being filled and to everything in life there’s two if not three sides.
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But being stripped isn’t just a loss. In my career as a stripper I have learned another important piece of wisdom that has carried on into my life, and how I see existence in itself.
When I was dancing stripping meant no loss at all. With every piece of clothing I would lose on stage or in the lap dance booth my power grew. With each loss of layer (and sometimes, I would purposefully layer up to ensure a good show) my seduction caught the attention of my audience more and more. It was like reeling in fish on multiple lines. Getting rid of clothing, losing fabric didn’t leave me helpless or embarrassed nor did I feel like a victim of my admirers. Instead, it made me grow taller, strut slower, and climb higher to their attention and willingness to pay it forward. Pay me for my willingness to show more skin and agree on my terms and timing to strip down — sometimes to bare skin. I felt powerful, and knew I have what it takes even in full nudity. Sometimes clothing — especially on the pole — was hindering and even dangerous.
I remember a show I had dance with a special Velcro costume I had sewed to tear pieces of clothing off … God, it was fun, and I’ll never forget how my audience’s faces dropped thinking I was sacrificing Rhine stoned panties and bra for their entertainment … not to mention the countless of shirts I have torn on stage just to bring out the animal in me and them.
Therefore, we must understand that everything in life that seems a loss means also some type of gain. And the same could apply to the year of 2020 which is racing to come to an end. If people would just be open to embrace change, and the chance to win … if they would be willing to look under their stripped pieces of clothing to discover that somebody made it rain on them while they were struggling to hold on to the pole, walk in uncomfortable, tight, painful high heels on a slippery stage floor, too caught up in trying to survive their show and a new scenario they have not yet encountered before. But this new type of performance and existence would too soon become a well formed routine and bring unexpected joy and wealth, that in the end, will change everything. Most importantly, change themselves despite the blisters on their dancers feet.
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Looking at the little things. Perfecting spins, changing contact points, and experimenting with new approaches and mostly making the impossible possible. Learning things you think you would never master.
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From the dream job to drilling pole tricks I would’ve never imagined even wanting to learn in the pole room … the one thing pole dancing has given me no matter why I dance and train is the daily surprise about discovering and learning something new about myself as well as making me realize that there are truly no limitations as long as you don’t give up.
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He said to me, “I wish I would have the wisdom and knowledge I have today combined with my energy when I was younger.” I replied, “I don’t. I just want to be young and hot. I know I’m superficial but it’s the truth.” He said, “You’re just honest. In the end, it all comes down to turning on the other sex and reproducing.” I admitted, “I don’t want to reproduce. I never did. I just want to seduce. Jesus, I miss stripping. It really was the ideal profession for me. Getting paid for turning someone on. It doesn’t get better. Even if I didn’t like the guys that got turned on. It was still fantastic.”
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