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STRIPPER’S DATING TIP: THE BEST WAY TO GET TO KNOW YOUR MAN!

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on April 29, 2017 by tiltdiary

It is not easy to find out who a man truly is beneath everything he lets you see and often pretends to be. But you can learn many things about a man by agreeing to join him for a meal: brunch, lunch, or dinner. It doesn’t really matter.
The first important lesson for women who are trying to find ‘The One’ is to learn to listen, hear, and to see clearly. Just like I tell my yoga students, I tell women who are actively dating that the most important thing is to listen and watch carefully and attentively. When it comes to dating it requires for most women to be willing to take off their rose colored glasses. When trying to find ‘The One’ a rosy retrospective isn’t useful at all, instead it will mislead you and most likely lead to a broken heart. When dating it is important to be very realistic, alert, and guided by clarity. It is also important to remove the false freedom gained through feminism which has women not really advanced much when it comes to their relationships with men. A conservative point of view is most beneficial when it comes to finding a life partner. Forget about everything else you have heard, because it is NOT OK to split the bill or have the woman pay no matter how broke the man is. If you are important to him he will find the cash to take you out. Don’t forget, he gets to spend time with the wonderful you and will be invigorated by your charm, pheromones, and female magnetism.
But there are other signs and signals you need to learn to read. The way he greets you before you enter the restaurant. Or did he already take his seat in the restaurant without waiting for you upfront? How generous is he, does he judge you by what you order, does he tell you how much you should eat? Does he ask you how hungry you are (it’s like asking me what a lap dance entitles — how the hell can you answer that question, plus it’s none of his business), does he criticize your choices? Does he tell you you are ordering too much or does he tell you you are not ordering enough? Is he generous, only wants to spend the minimum, or is he really cheap. Does he expect you to chip in, or pay for your own meal or his meal as well? What conversations does he pick during the meal? Does he contradict himself — most men do at some point? And if yes on what accounts? Which restaurant has he picked? Unhealthy, fattening food or healthy, evolved food (like a organic, vegan place)? You learn by watching his choices and listening to him much more than if you are busy talking — which is one of the biggest problems many women have. They talk too much and miss out on catching the important, early warning signs. Date dinner date with a man will tell you much about him, how he values himself and his health, how evolved he is, and how much he values you.
Last but not least  you don’t just learn about him from if he pays but also with what he pays. Watch out for Mr. Trickster who will be very generous but will use his business card to either write off your meal with him or even better charge it to his employer.
And don ‘t let your first dinner out with him trick you. On the first date most men still put a lot of effort into you. Let him think the cat is caught and watch how his behavior changes. And don’t forget, kissing on the first date is out! No tongue, no kissy kiss. And if he tries … next … this guy thinks he’s on the speed train to your bedroom and that is a clear signal that he’s not ‘The One.’ You want to make sure your guy is in it for the long run even without potential sex. With that your choices will narrow quickly but your disappointments will also stay at a minimum.
And don’t forget, you don’t have to eat everything he orders for you nor do you need to eat food at a place you don’t like. Sometimes, it’s better to leave hungry than eat some shit!

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ONE WRONG WORD AND THE DATE IS OFF

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on April 24, 2017 by tiltdiary

In my opinion, women have become far too tolerant when it comes to male behavior on a date. I blame partially on emancipation, and partially  on women’s desperation for getting laid. Fact is, in the USA — possibly around the world — women aren’t getting sexually properly satisfy. Maybe, women have never been served right when it comes to sex, but the continuous decline of male testosterone could be contributing to the widespread sex desperation and aggressive behavior of the female kind. Now a days, the modern male is perfectly happy with once a month mediocre sex, in fact, more will most likely overwhelm him. Depression, being overwhelmed by his job, redirecting sexual stamina into video games, porn, as well as numbing TV, and the preference to smoke a relaxing joint or drink a cold beer that will quench the thirst for sexual interaction as well are common ways in the domesticated male to make sure sex is just not that important anymore. While the act of sex is often too exhausting men still want to dream about they could have sex. I think that’s why they date. But due to the change in male drive and a significant shift in his primal wiring dates aren’t really dates anymore.
Instead, of showing a woman that he could be a good provider (which women look for subconsciously since it is ingrained into our DNA) the modern male has become cheaper and more cost efficient than ever. And women take it, except strippers. We do not compromise when it comes to your wallet. We know if you cannot pay, you eventually cannot fuck us right either. And whats the point having a poor fish at the end of the line that won’t be able to treat us well and stand up for his manlyhood in bed.
With the average woman splitting the bill might work, and the sentence, “Let’s share some dishes,” might come across romantic. But with a high caliber woman sharing outs a cheap date and a lazy fuck as well.
If you’re still trying to date a high quality stripper pay the bill in full and don’t ever stick your fork into her dish so you can get a bite of hers for free!

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MILLION DOLLAR TIP HOW TO MAKE IT UP TO A WOMAN!

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on April 14, 2017 by tiltdiary

Interestingly, when men feel guilty they most of the time suggest a “making up for it” by an activity that will be enjoyable to them. It seems, they have no consideration for what you would need to make it right.
I have gotten proposals for dinners, shopping trips, vacation invitations, as well as sex offers to make things right when a guy messed up. I have also gotten offers from customers to be buddies for life. None of these men knew me well enough to actually know if I enjoy eating out, shopping, traveling, spending time with them as well as having sex with them. So here’s a million dollar tip: if you mess up find out first what she likes before you offer to make it up to her! She might not want to suck your dick or have you eat her pussy after you told her she’s fat!

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SHOULD YOU KISS ON THE FIRST DATE?

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on April 5, 2017 by tiltdiary

It has come to my attention, through men that have talked about dating when they visit the strip club, that a kiss now a days compares to a hand shake. In fact, many of the men I have talked to admitted that they won’t see a girl for a second date if heavy making out didn’t happen on the first date. I have also experienced that men that took me on a date expected a kiss on the first or second date — which is not going to happen. It also explains why many men think kissing in a lap dance is normal and some of them are wired with an uncontrollable kissing reflex which often leads to air kissing since an experienced dancer knows how to escape unwanted fluid exchange.
In my opinion, kissing is something very special and should not be practiced frivolously. If you think about it there’s not that much difference between sticking a tongue into someones mouth or your dick into a vagina. You can even transmit some of the same diseases as well as gum diseases, the flu, a common cold, and some STDs. Please kiss responsibly. And ladies if he’s not willing to wait then you should kiss his ass good-bye.

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WHY MANY MEN ASK STRIPPERS TO MEET THEM OUTSIDE OF THE CLUB

Posted in Customers with tags , , , , , , on March 9, 2017 by tiltdiary

R. Kennedy is a dear friend of mine who has never worked as a stripper, yet, she has once visited me at work. One day she sent me this message, and it is amazing to me how she summed it up so well, without having ever worked in a strip club, “Men who visit strip clubs are being lend wings to their sexual fantasies. They think that women who work there only do it because they have nymphomaniac  tendencies, and they have fun with sex regardless if it’s with a man or a woman. They know that there are certain rules of the game in the clubs, which in their opinion just hinder the dancer to follow her real desires, wants, and needs. That’s why these men are trying to meet you dancers outside of the club. They don’t think very far when they request to meet outside of the club, and it is really irreverent towards the woman.”
Of course, not all men are the same but most of them fit R. Kennedy’s profile description.

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WHAT TO DO IF YOU FORGOT VALENTINE’S DAY

Posted in Family Events & Celebrations with tags , , , , , , on February 15, 2017 by tiltdiary

I hate to break it to you, but if you forgot to wish her a happy Valentine’s Day, you are in the dog house — even if she says she doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day, and it doesn’t mean anything to her. But if you forgot, she will resent you for it, and you will have to work your way out. You will need to pull out all the stops: flowers, chocolate (yes, all this wasteful stuff we strippers don’t want!), jewelry, generous spa certificate, dinner and a foot massage afterwards without expecting anything in return. Further more, you will need to clean the house, do the dishes, scrub the garage with a toothbrush, landscape the yard, wash her car, take the kids to school and pick em up. To be honest, you will be in debt for the rest of your life, so just don’t do it ever again. Either way, you are fucked, because if you didn’t forget Valentine’s Day most likely the gift wasn’t right or valuable enough.
And you think strippers are gold diggers …

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OPPOSITE INTENTIONS IN DATING

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , on February 13, 2017 by tiltdiary

It seems, typically when dating, woman are constantly on the look out for a man’s true intentions. No woman wants to go out with a man who only wants her for sex, even if she just wants him for sex.
Men on the other hand, seem to hope she just wants sex, yet, it won’t feel so good to them afterwards if she really just wanted him for sex and doesn’t want to ever meet again.
Everybody wants to be the object of the desire and end it on their terms.
The next time, you’re out in a bar, think this through before you screw.

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