Archive for Wanting More

HOW TO FIND LOVE AND JOY 

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on July 7, 2018 by tiltdiary

Most people don’t value and cherish what they have and are too busy dreaming about what they want. This way they miss out on what’s best in their lives and often don’t see the love and joy that’s right in front of them. — A.A. Jones 

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MIDLIFE CRISIS, CRAZY HORMONES, AND WHY SOME OF US WANT MORE

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , on January 14, 2017 by tiltdiary

She was wondering, “Maybe it’s something like midlife crisis. But I don’t see any sense nor fulfillment in my current job anymore. Or maybe my hormones are just going crazy. Whatever …” I explained to her something that will be often overlooked when people are labeled and put into the drawer of midlife crisis, “In the end, for any person who has an awareness slightly above average around 40 these questions will roll in. It’s not because we are crazy or are looking for something that doesn’t exist. At some point in our life we realize that there is just not that much time left anymore. And with that comes the resistance to waste any more time on something that doesn’t feel like we are 100% in our element. Often, what we do for living is just a necessity, and when we realize that this necessity is not improving our life the way it should then it makes no sense anymore. It makes perfect sense, and is actually a healthy discovery, yet, society once more will label it negatively, and possibly, even medicate you to keep you functioning without disturbing the daily grind and risking to wake others from their comatose life state. But every second is so precious and spending it doing something you don’t feel good about is basically suicide. Midlife crisis, self-awareness, questioning life, and looking for more is the second chance on life only some of us get. Embrace it.”

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WHEN STRIP CLUB CUSTOMERS FEEL ENTITLED

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on January 14, 2016 by tiltdiary

Once more, I see another parallel of real life and the strip club, and once more, the strip club only holds a magnifying glass to it, yet, there’s really not that much difference to real life.
People can only hear, see, and read what they want. There’s is not much consideration for the other person involved.
When a man is attracted to me he assumes I am automatically attracted to him as well. When you’re polite and have etiquette he thinks it’s a sign for him to go further and disrespect the boundaries you have set, and he will tell you that he wants more from you. More is the motto anyways. Everybody wants more of what you have to offer without considering to top their own game. They feel a sense of entitlement when things become comfortable, familiar, and safe between each other. There is a German saying that I find to be very true, “When you give someone your little finger they soon want your whole hand.” People forget that when they want more and more and more they miss out on what they have, eventually, even losing it due to their ignorance and greed. More is not always better. Appreciate what you have and stop asking for more. Because more can run the other person over. Telling someone what you want from them can be a big turn off.

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LIFE WON’T CUT ANY SLACK

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , , , on December 4, 2014 by tiltdiary

He wanted more and thought that’s how he’ll reach the top

Banging his head against the doors that were always locked

Envied the neighbors for their brand new cars

Reaching up for all the stars

Believing money would save their lives

While she was lonely and broke out in hives

He was hoping for things to get better

But all she wanted was a love letter

He was caught up with making money

And she just wanted him to call her honey

After her heart had frozen

He realized the mistake he had chosen

But it was too late

She was at the heaven’s gate

He wished that he could have her back

But it is too late, life won’t cut any slack

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BENEFITS OF MEETING A STRIPPR INSIDE THE CLUB VERSA OUTSIDE THE CLUB

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , on October 14, 2014 by tiltdiary

Think about it, before you ask the dancer of your dreams to meet you outside of the club. Because there are many benefits to meeting the girl of your fantasies at the club:

1. It’s most likely cheaper to meet inside the club than outside the club especially if you both are drinkers. A good dinner with drinks at a decent restaurant will leave you bleeding without having enjoyed a lap dance or two.

2. If you visit at the club she is going to want to see you for sure.

3. She will look her best, because we strippers put much effort into our looks when on duty. Plus, the club light ads a touch of charm and puts us in the right lighting.

4. You will appear much better as well. The red and blue club lights will fade out your wrinkles and make you look much younger and better than the lighting in the outside world.

5. Meeting outside of the club will not guarantee you to see your girl in sexy lingerie, cute outfits, and high heels. Even if she wears her most beautiful dress to the date she will be fully dressed.

6. She has time for you at the club and can dedicate her full attention to you. That might not apply to a date outside of the club … her mother could call or other things might come up while at dinner.

7. Her shift at the club is between 6-8 hours. You can decide how long you want to stay. A date outside of the club is less controllable.

8. The club is a cool chill place to be. It’s a fantasy place for you to relax and get away from the outside world. Don’t underestimate that fact.

Now you probably think of your goal to get laid outside of the club without paying for the girls attention. I hate to break it to you, but every man pays for female attention. Married men pay the most and most of the time end up with no or minimal female attention from their wives. After all, the club is not that expensive and it’s a no brainer date with a fun time guaranteed if you can follow some simple common courtesy rules. Don’t underestimate what life offers you and start appreciating what you have, because always thriving for more and something else might not necessarily up the fun.

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MARRIED AND MISERABLE?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on June 7, 2014 by tiltdiary

Are you stuck in a relationship that doesn’t make you happy? Do you think, if you had a better job, new car, bigger house, different children, if you would be in better shape, if your partner wouldn’t do this or that…then you would be really happy? Did you ever think about being too busy and focused on the flaws in your life instead of focusing on the beautiful plants (one of them is your partner) you have already growing and that would give you magical flowers and bring joy to you if you would spend your energy on tending and watering them instead of wasting time and energy on dreaming about the better job, better tomorrow, or what more money would buy you? Appreciate what you already have and nurture it. The biggest treasure might be already right front of you but you might be just to busy being miserable in order to notice it. Stop being blinded by the bling that’s distracting you and look at the creation of your own life. It might be more than you are ever able to dream of. Become aware!

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TOO BUSY CREATING WEALTH

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , on February 3, 2014 by tiltdiary

Most people are so caught up in creating wealth, longing to own a fortune, and accumulating more things, they forget what’s right in front of them and what real happiness is. They are never satisfied, but buying more things and having more money will not give you what will truly fulfill you. No matter how much money you have, it won’t buy you passion or love, and life without it means nothing. Is life and misery easier tolerated when rich? Absolutely yes. But no amount of money can buy you passion or love. That can only be found when you have the courage to follow your heart and leave what you think you should do, because society would approve of it. Follow your heart and know, only the heart knows how to still your hunger and quench your thirst.

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