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WHEN STRIPPERS SAVE MARRIAGES

Posted in Jones' Poems with tags , , , , , on April 20, 2016 by tiltdiary

I bring out everything you’re trying to push away
It enables you to continue your misery and stay
You don’t leave your comfort zone
Because you come to me so you can continue to bone
Once a month with the lights down
And your underwear on
You are able to get it up
And pretend your old hag is a good fuck
Meanwhile you dream about my silky ass and luscious breast
And it helps you to put up with your wife being a pest
You continue the denial
Looking forward to my irresistible smile
Then you can continue your life for another week
Forgetting the fact that your life sucks and you’d rather weep

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WHY MEN BOTTLE UP STUFF

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , on March 9, 2016 by tiltdiary

It’s known that men don’t communicate the way we women communicate. Even if they have a best friend they usually don’t talk about their relationships and what might push daggers into their heart. Men talk about things, they play or watch games together, they talk about hot chicks, they brag about themselves, and they like to pretend that everything is OK even if it isn’t. It’s widely known that men bottle things up, have a tough time expressing, and rather not talk about that kinda stuff.
They might come to the strip club and mention “something, “so you get the idea they are in deep shit. But they still insist, “I am happily married.”
It took me a long time to understand why men often live a life in such denial. Why they lie about what’s really happening with their children, their relationships, with themselves. Living in denial will stop progress and prevent change.
One reason is the fear of change. Most men at least know what to expect even if it’s complete misery, so they settle for it. At least they know what’s coming. They are used to it.
But there’s another reason for the ‘everything is awesome’ pretend. Admitting to a friend that they have family shit going on would mean admitting that they failed in life. Men are expected to be in tough and in charge. Admitting to be hurt and possibly suffering would just make them look like a wimp. And of course, wimps fails. Instead of looking at what’s really going on, most men try to fix things. And unfortunately, most men think family disasters and failing marriages can be fixed by bringing home more money, yet, the greed is what caused the misery, the out of touch relationships, the lost connection to the loved ones in the first place.

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MARRIED AND MISERABLE?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on June 7, 2014 by tiltdiary

Are you stuck in a relationship that doesn’t make you happy? Do you think, if you had a better job, new car, bigger house, different children, if you would be in better shape, if your partner wouldn’t do this or that…then you would be really happy? Did you ever think about being too busy and focused on the flaws in your life instead of focusing on the beautiful plants (one of them is your partner) you have already growing and that would give you magical flowers and bring joy to you if you would spend your energy on tending and watering them instead of wasting time and energy on dreaming about the better job, better tomorrow, or what more money would buy you? Appreciate what you already have and nurture it. The biggest treasure might be already right front of you but you might be just to busy being miserable in order to notice it. Stop being blinded by the bling that’s distracting you and look at the creation of your own life. It might be more than you are ever able to dream of. Become aware!

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