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WHEN GIRLS AUDITION AT THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , on September 7, 2018 by tiltdiary

She was visiting the club on her off night with a friend, and she was a little tipsy. A young girl in her early twenties with not much stage experience. I could see she had collected all of her courage to talk to me as she told me in a very thick Middle Eastern accent, “You know, I started dancing at this club to raise money for the short film I am producing. But I have to tell you, I will never forgot my first night here when I was auditioning and frightened by my performance anxiety, and you talked to me in the dressing room. I don’t know if you remember that night. Of course I remember that night, how could I forget, I remember the exact words of encouragement I told her when she had asked me how you dance sexy. But she repeated my words, “You told me, ‘Go out there and be you. Don’t imitate anybody, don’t try to pretend anything, the most enticing thing in a woman is who she really is deep down inside when she leaves her fears and inhibitions behind even if she’s shy about it. Shyness has it’s very own magnetic charm.’ You changed my life with your loving support, and I want you to know I have written you into my movie, you have a character.” Inspiring people means breathing courage and passion into their souls … now that is a rewarding experience.

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TOASTMASTERS AND STAGE FRIGHT AT THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on February 20, 2018 by tiltdiary

The young woman had already told me in the dressing room that this was her first night working at a strip club. She had never danced before, and she was obviously very nervous. Later, on the floor, I happened to overhear a conversation she had with a customer. She told him, “Well, to be honest I am doing this just to lose my stage fright.” I was stunned. I thought to myself if she’s really dancing for this silly reason — she probably lied and thought it would make her look better and less desperate, but every woman’s primary reason for working at a strip club is to make money — she should rather join Toastmasters. A much more comfortable and safe way to lose your stage fright.

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