Archive for power games

TRENDING ABUSIVE

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , on November 13, 2018 by tiltdiary

The world is in uproar. People are frustrated, stressed like the devil, and the disasters are accumulating. With that the strip club clientele changes. The club gets angry, the customers are frustrated, the dancers get frustrated, some even cry … abuse seems to be the trend. One shift becomes more daunting than the other. An accumulation of fear. frustration, and anger. The club just mirrors the outside world, and what should be a place of fun, play, and entertainment becomes a place for horror, stress, exhaustion, and power games. It seems the customers don’t come in at all anymore to get turned on, to get seduced, instead, it feels like they only come in to abuse and beat up a stripper, and proof that they do have at least some power in life — like not tipping the dancers … I miss the times when dancing could be lots of fun …

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FREAK SHOW AT THE STRIP CLUB

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , on August 21, 2018 by tiltdiary

Once more, the club has taught me a skill that seems to be lifesaving for any life situation: Eagle Perspective! Instead of letting outrageous behavior, rudeness, or negative energy suck me in, I stand back and watch from above. Being able to quietly observe without reacting immediately makes a big difference. Anger makes you blind. But when you’re forced to emotionally detach — which is crucial for club survival — and look at things rather analytically it gets very interesting. Humans’ outrageous behavior can be fascinating. It’s a freak show in itself. Whether you observe strip club customers, drivers on the 101 or 405, whether you see that DJ or your bullying boss trying to gain power of something minuscule, your neighbor over-water his already friend lawn, or your co-worker/co-stripper trying to sabotage you because of their lack of confidence. Start watching and you will be in for a mind blowing shit show …

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SURVIVAL TRAINING AT THE STIP CLUB 

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , on July 31, 2018 by tiltdiary

We were dealing with a company in regards to health and wellness. The negotiations were going awfully slow and complicated when she asked me, “Is this even Mercury at play or just poor business?” What shot out of my mouth like a bullet out of a pistol even surprised myself, “Unfortunatley, this has nothing to do with Mercury Retrograde. This is another example of a little power found on their end and now finally feeling important, like the DJ that won’t play the song you requested because it’s too slow or too fast.” 

It is fascinating how the things that happen in the club repeat itself in your daily life. So being a dancer you have the advantage of recognizing the bullshit faster since the club hits you over the head with crap at the speed of lite. It’s like a crash course about survival skills for the jungle “life.” 

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