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WHEN SEX BECOMES NOTHING BUT A HANDSHAKE 

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on November 7, 2018 by tiltdiary

It appears to me after talking to countless women and men that now a days sex is practiced like handshaking, although, I have to admit that even as a child I would refuse to shake some person’s hand, especially when I sensed they were infected with the flu virus or energetically contaminated. But the youth does not seem to be picky … Women engage into sex on the first date just because that’s what you do or maybe so they can brag about the sex they had the day before. Men have sex even if they aren’t really into the girl. Both parties don’t want to hurt the other person’s feeling by declining sex. And sexual encounters to them seem like chewing gum to me … even if the flavor is gone you kinda forget and keep chewing till you’re overcome with some strange nausea. And while I do not want to discuss today the physical effects of these frivolous encounters (which are detrimental but will take effects rather in the later years) I want to express my concern about the mental effects on these people who suffer from loneliness, isolation, self-distruction, and many are suicidal (as I hear from a college counselor on a very popular campus here in Los Angeles). The physical encounters leave nothing but the urge to try it again — a type of sex addiction looking for a fix these type of hookups cannot provide. The mental state is numbing and unfulfilled as well as the physical state. No real connections are made, no fix found, nothing gained, only the physical holes are filled with a mediocre experience that leaves these people hungering for more without understanding that no physical connection without an emotional and mental connection can be fulfilling no matter how cool or skilled you are at hooking up. And the emotional holes grow bigger without any awareness of why and what. People keep fucking, and in the end, that is what gets them fucked. 

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WHAT’S SEX ALL ABOUT?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on February 22, 2014 by tiltdiary

The club has taught me many things I didn’t know about life, love, humans, sex, and relationships. I had to quickly rethink and start understanding that sex is most of the times not about love. Sex can have many motives and reasons. Some people seek a physical or mental fix through sex. Sometimes, it’s really just about getting off and getting that physical fix. For other people sex is about power, creativity (for some often the only way to express themselves and be who they really are), or it’s simply a game where there is only one winner. I rarely hear people talk about sex in connection with love. Yet, I cannot help to wonder why people engage into sex without love being involved. Yeah, I get the physical relief part, but can’t you get that safer, cheaper, and less complicated by masturbating? Good sex takes a lot of effort and why would you put so much effort and skill into someone you don’t deeply care about? It seems like a waste of energy to me. But maybe, sex has become more like a 24 hour drive through fast food restaurant. You can get your favorite dish any time, any place, with minimal expense, and the jumbo size is available to your convenience because everybody is hungry for more. Wondering which sex fast food consequences we are really facing?

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