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SUGGESTIONS FOR STRIP CLUBS

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , , on March 30, 2014 by tiltdiary

As a stripper I get constantly approached by customers suggesting to change clubs. Even the few friends that know I am working as a stripper often suggest to me where I could and should work instead. The way non-strippers put it is always very interesting. Any other club will be turned into this mouth watering establishment where dancing seems completely non-threatening and safe. Just recently a friend of mine told me, “I checked out this club, and you should really check it out. It wasn’t creepy at all, the girls were super nice and talented and seemed to be having a great time. It was a very slow night but there was no creepy stuff going on.” It is interesting that people who have never worked as a stripper feel like this about almost every club. But to be honest, there is no non-creepy strip club. It’s not the set up or the girls that make the club creepy. It’s the customers that visit, and it takes only one creep to turn the whole experience, and trust me there are more creeps than non-creeps that visit. People in general don’t go to the strip clubs to get a drink (they don’t even just go to a bar to just get a drink because you can get a drink cheaper around the corner at the liquor store). People visit to get their fix …and there is a lot of demand for fixing out there …

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WHAT’S SEX ALL ABOUT?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on February 22, 2014 by tiltdiary

The club has taught me many things I didn’t know about life, love, humans, sex, and relationships. I had to quickly rethink and start understanding that sex is most of the times not about love. Sex can have many motives and reasons. Some people seek a physical or mental fix through sex. Sometimes, it’s really just about getting off and getting that physical fix. For other people sex is about power, creativity (for some often the only way to express themselves and be who they really are), or it’s simply a game where there is only one winner. I rarely hear people talk about sex in connection with love. Yet, I cannot help to wonder why people engage into sex without love being involved. Yeah, I get the physical relief part, but can’t you get that safer, cheaper, and less complicated by masturbating? Good sex takes a lot of effort and why would you put so much effort and skill into someone you don’t deeply care about? It seems like a waste of energy to me. But maybe, sex has become more like a 24 hour drive through fast food restaurant. You can get your favorite dish any time, any place, with minimal expense, and the jumbo size is available to your convenience because everybody is hungry for more. Wondering which sex fast food consequences we are really facing?

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LOOKING FOR YOUR NEXT FIX

Posted in Jones' wisdom with tags , , , , , , on February 4, 2014 by tiltdiary

No doubt, the strip club is where most people go to looking for their fix. They find temporary relief and distraction from their real life, from being unwanted, rejected, unloved, feeling unattractive, and powerless. We dancer are there to provide what’s missing, and each of us feed into the needs of different customers. At the strip club, most customers understand that there is a price to getting their fix. In real life people don’t understand that, and if you are a giving person they will just take you for granted and run you down till you are empty and have nothing to give anymore. At least at the club you get reimbursed for your expertise no matter in which field it falls.

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