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MARRIED AND MISERABLE?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on June 7, 2014 by tiltdiary

Are you stuck in a relationship that doesn’t make you happy? Do you think, if you had a better job, new car, bigger house, different children, if you would be in better shape, if your partner wouldn’t do this or that…then you would be really happy? Did you ever think about being too busy and focused on the flaws in your life instead of focusing on the beautiful plants (one of them is your partner) you have already growing and that would give you magical flowers and bring joy to you if you would spend your energy on tending and watering them instead of wasting time and energy on dreaming about the better job, better tomorrow, or what more money would buy you? Appreciate what you already have and nurture it. The biggest treasure might be already right front of you but you might be just to busy being miserable in order to notice it. Stop being blinded by the bling that’s distracting you and look at the creation of your own life. It might be more than you are ever able to dream of. Become aware!

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WHAT’S SEX ALL ABOUT?

Posted in Stripper Secrets with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on February 22, 2014 by tiltdiary

The club has taught me many things I didn’t know about life, love, humans, sex, and relationships. I had to quickly rethink and start understanding that sex is most of the times not about love. Sex can have many motives and reasons. Some people seek a physical or mental fix through sex. Sometimes, it’s really just about getting off and getting that physical fix. For other people sex is about power, creativity (for some often the only way to express themselves and be who they really are), or it’s simply a game where there is only one winner. I rarely hear people talk about sex in connection with love. Yet, I cannot help to wonder why people engage into sex without love being involved. Yeah, I get the physical relief part, but can’t you get that safer, cheaper, and less complicated by masturbating? Good sex takes a lot of effort and why would you put so much effort and skill into someone you don’t deeply care about? It seems like a waste of energy to me. But maybe, sex has become more like a 24 hour drive through fast food restaurant. You can get your favorite dish any time, any place, with minimal expense, and the jumbo size is available to your convenience because everybody is hungry for more. Wondering which sex fast food consequences we are really facing?

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