He explained, “But I am so much more attracted to my wife after she gained some weight through the pregnancy. I want to have sex with her all the time, but she’s not interested at all.  I tell her that so many times. She’s so hot, and the extra weight looks good on her.” I explained, “It’s wonderful that you tell your wife that you like her the way she is or even more after she had the baby. But it doesn’t really matter how you feel about her body. What matters is how she feels about her body. How it makes her feel when she looks at herself in the mirror. How her body feels when she touches herself, or maybe she doesn’t even touch herself. Most women have lost complete touch with their own body, and that’s the worse. There’s a disconnect. And that’s the biggest sex killer. If a woman isn’t in touch with her own body nobody can give that back to her except herself. It often takes a lot of work and determination to get back in touch or for some women to get in touch for the first time — most need guidance from an experienced therapist. Many women live disconnected. The other thing is that lasting sexuality comes from how you perceive your own body. If one or both partner have a bad body image sexuality becomes more and more difficult. However, a woman who is in love with herself, her curves, her body, how she feels, looks, moves …  is a radiating sex magnet. She will be irresistible to herself and others.”

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