NEVER BE AFRAID TO ASK
Everybody lives in their own world with different languages, values, and understandings due to upbringing, geography, and circumstances that are often influenced by previous experiences. Even if we speak the same language it doesn’t mean that we mean the same thing. Asking questions does stop misunderstandings from arising. Never be afraid to ask how someone means it when they say or write it.
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